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I Got The Cane At School

Well, actually I didn't, but I thought I was going to. I was 10 or 11 and I was caught out of bounds during the lunch break. The mistress who caught me sent me to stand outside the head's study. I thought she was going to ask the headmistress to cane me, but in fact I just got a detention. Maybe it would have been better if I had been caned ...
Sharon · F
A boyfriend and I got the cane in secondary school for being out of bounds. I don't suppose the fact that he had his fingers in my pussy and I had my hand in his pants when we were caught helped.
MartinII · 70-79, M
When I was at school (boys only) I used to imagine that the cane was very much a male thing. Now I know that some girls were caned severely, and that some schoolmistresses were enthusiastic wielders of the cane.

I always feel a bit upset when a nice lady tells me about being caned at school. I wish I could give you a hug!
SW-User
@Martinll.I went to mixed schools in London, the cane was given across the hand. At junior school (8-11), it was given frequently, someone normally got it in my class eveyday, I got it when I was 10. 1 stroke as rule, but I do rembember one boy getting 2 across each hand, alternating hands for each stroke.

At secondary school (11-16), the cane was given far less frequently, not all teachers caned. I got it when I was 12 and 14. Again normally one stroke, but I do recall a boy getting 2 across each hand and a girl getting 1 across each hand. I think the view was that 1 was normally enough,getting a painful experience was sufficient deterrent and punishment, and it seemed to work.
MartinII · 70-79, M
@Dawntreader: Mine was a completely different regime. Boys direct grant grammar school, including lower school from age 8. Run on public school lines. Only the headmaster was authorised to use corporal punishment, though a couple of teachers in the lower school gave unofficial spankings. If you did get sent to the head, it was a beating.
suzie1960 · 61-69, F
I was caught sneaking out of school one break time to go to the sweet shop when I was 9. I was taken to the headmistress who, after a serious telling off, bent me over a chair, lifted my skirt and applied 3 hard strokes of her whippy cane across the seat of my knickers. It stung like hell!
MartinII · 70-79, M
@Dawntrader: 1 stroke of the cane sounds very civilised! The cane wasn't used all that much at my school - only for repeated misdemeanours or a few things which were deemed specially serious. I think it was usually six of the best.
MartinII · 70-79, M
Thanks Louise - I guess I'm just being sentimental. I'm certainly no opponent of cp, for girls or boys.

Unlike you I was a bit of a "shrinking innocent". A caning or two might have toughened me up.
suzie1960 · 61-69, F
@Martinll. Yes. I'd had the ruler and slipper before but not the cane. It was only after I got it at secondary school that I discovered the one at primary school was relatively mild.
MartinII · 70-79, M
@suzie: I wasn't leaving school premises like you, just in a part of the playing field that was strictly out of bounds. What do you think I would have got at your school?
MartinII · 70-79, M
@ susie 1960: I was an objectionably well-behaved little boy, so it would probably have been the slipper! I think I might have preferred that to an hour's detention.
SW-User
True Martinll,dentention was a drag,normally you only got 1 stroke of the cane at my school and it was all over quickly. Also it showed your mates that you were quite tough and not a scaredy.
suzie1960 · 61-69, F
@Martinll. You might have got the cane, more likely the slipper. A lot would depend on how much trouble you'd been in before.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
Why do you think the cane would have been better than detention?
MartinII · 70-79, M
@ArishMell Well, it MIGHT have been better. I have a feeling that it might have been good for me, at some stage in my school career, to experience the cane, but it's the sort of thing you can't prove - equally it might have scarred me for life.

As I say below, I think the most appropriate punishment would have been the slipper. But at my school, except in PE lessons, cp meant the cane or nothing.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
I don't think having the cane once would have scarred you for life, if it was justified and fair by the standards of the time, unless you'd let it do so.

Gratuitous beatings others describe are a different matter, and veer from maintaining discipline (not [i]being[/i] "discipline") to cruelty.

As you say though, you can't prove it at all; and certainly not by drawing on others' experiences. I avoided it, never wanted it, don't regret not "sampling" it and am pleased it has been abolished - but still have a fascination for CP that arose first in boyhood, and am still attracted to its adult, erotic or therapeutic use!

Not sure if I want to sample the cane now, but I am drawn to the school-style slipper I managed also to avoid.
MartinII · 70-79, M
Hi Louise: When you were caned at school, did your parents know? If so what did they say/do?
MartinII · 70-79, M
When you were caned, did you have to touch your toes, or did you have a desk or something to bend over?
suzie1960 · 61-69, F
@Martinll. I preferred the slipper to detention. I know a lot of others did too.
MartinII · 70-79, M
@suzie 1960: was that your first caning?
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
Would you have prefered the cane ?
MartinII · 70-79, M
@Pop0159: Well, I don't know. I hated detentions. If it had only been a couple of strokes ... I actually think a few whacks with a slipper would have been the most appropriate punishment, but that wasn't officially an option at my school.
ammoniascrubbertime · 46-50, F
Throw your teacher in the ammonia scrubber
MartinII · 70-79, M
Horrid. How many strokes?

 
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