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I Hate My Parents

Me and my boyfriend went out Saturday to get a pregnancy test I'm not pregnant by the way. I took another pregnancy test today I was wearing my dads jacket and accidentally forgot I left the wrapper in his pocket 🤦🏾‍♀️ Both my parents questioned me my mom said keep it up my baby will be on welfare my mom laughed at me while my dad sounded disappointed 😔 they didn't believe me when I said I wasn't pregnant they won't let me go to my friends house/ see my boyfriend anymore they said when I turn 18 they're gonna kick me out 😔All I want to do is spend time with him why're they treating me like this like I'm literally almost 18
WildHeart · 41-45, F
As a parent myself I fully understand, however I also recall being a teenager at one stage. What would you have done had the test came out positive? At this age would you be ready to become a parent? Your parents reacted that way because they love you, it may not seem that way right now but believe me when you're sitting pregnant with no way out, you will fully understand. Word of advise if you're persistent on having sex please be safe.
WildHeart · 41-45, F
@BlackAphrodite: So do you have any plans to further your education? Being a mother is not easy sweetie. His young, he would just about anything. I am glad you find comfort in him, but please don't make a baby to escape from your parents.
rainydaysandmondays · 61-69, F
@BlackAphrodite: if you are miserable, getting pregnant is not a way out! Education is, bettering yourself is. I know you think you are the only one in a bad situation, but believe me, many people have had it as bad or worse than you. If you want a better life, make one for yourself. And it's OK to make one with your BF, just make sure you take care of you, get an education, or learn a trade so that if one day you are the sole provider for your future children, you can provide them with a home. They don't need some mom who is working dead end, minimum wage jobs or is on welfare, all stressed out. The odds are that if you do have a child before you are financially and emotionally ready, in 15 years, your kid will be the one posting the same stuff you are.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@WiseGirl: ofcourse I have plans to further my education
Dalegend27 · M
YOUNG LADY. YOU NEED TO STOP HAVING SEX LIKE A LITTLE PROSTITUTE AND START STUDYING. MAYBE IF YOU STUDIED A BOOK AS HARD AS YOU STUDIED THE TIP OF A DICK YOU'D BE A DOCTOR ALREADY. LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR CATS BECAUSE THEY AREN'T CARING AFTER THAT FATHERLESS BABY U PRODUCE FROM THAT GHETTO GANGSTA THUG U CALL A BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@CokeboyDiego: you're ignorant I don't care what race he is
Dalegend27 · M
@BlackAphrodite: ull care when ya baby end up dead or in jail. Noob.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@CokeboyDiego: stereotypical racist bullshit
SW-User
You wonder why they're treating you like this? Try reading the very first 12 words of your first sentence and then after that sinks in keep reading, maybe you'll figure it out.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@OKWTFN: 💁🏾 Who gives a fuck
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BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@OKWTFN: lol not all adults old fart
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BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
💀this is 2017 sir we use profanity now so stop being so square @OKWTFN:
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BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@OKWTFN: not being used he's not a boy I'm going back to finish school and don't call my offspring a bastard child we're gonna be amazing parents
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
I understand the only thing that is important to you now is to be with him, have him, and feel you are as important to him as he is to you .. .. That is what's called a crush .. but it is far far far from true love .. .. .. If what you had was true love you would be professing how you missed him and needed to know he was OK .. .. that your love wiuld survive what ever keeps you apart for hiwever long it takes .. .. .. you would know the days left in your life until you turn 18 and can run to him .. .. .. you would consider your fortune for having the time you have and treasure every memory .. .. .. But alas I fear you have just a crush .. .. ..
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
But I do miss him and tell him all the time
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
@BlackAphrodite: missing someone, enjoying someone, spending time with someone is nice .. ..I have done this with many .. .. .. but commiting to someone, sharing the bad tumes ... and good .. .. .. staying loyal and involved dispite all odds .. .. .. thilose are signs of true love .. .. ..

I feel if you had true love you would right a book on the time you spend talking to him and a line or two on how you can't see him .. ..

I am not saying you don't enjoy your talks .. .. just that they are not quite there yet .. .. ..
firefall · 61-69, M
Well I'm glad you're not pregnant, and sorry your parents are acting like ... well, like teenagers acting out, with their emotions doing all the thinking, not their cortexes.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
You're absolutely right you're so understanding
SW-User
I would also be devastated if my teenage daughter was having unsafe sex. Your parents are worried that you are destroying your future.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
I'm not destroying my future I just want to spend time with him 😔 I'm sick of being stuck in the house taking care of my old parents and cats
SW-User
@BlackAphrodite: I didn't realize they were abusing you. In that case, get out. As a parent of a teenager, I would recommend that you use effective birth control for now. Having kids is very tough, and you and your bf need to be ready to care for them, financially and mentally. Please focus on yourself and your needs first. I'm very sorry that you are going through this.
malizz · 70-79, M
As you appear to be over 16, you should be able to move out anyway.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@malizz: I can but he's looking for a new place I don't know how long it'll take but I'm gonna live with him soon
malizz · 70-79, M
Fine; As far as possible pregnancy is concerned, all I'd say is just be sure you will stick together for the bairn. Otherwise it will be difficult.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@malizz: yes that's understandable I believe I can do this but I need my parents to back off
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
🤷 they care about you and dont want a pregnant 16 year old daughter
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@MartinTheFirst: you're making no sense get to the fucking point no wait let me tell you my dad beats me my mom is verbally abusive both my parents are controlling and bipolar now do you see why I want out
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@BlackAphrodite: I see why you are the way you are
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@MartinTheFirst: 😔You don't understand just forget it
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
What do you mean

 
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