I Am Enjoying Being A Muslim

I want to find arms that will hold me at my weakest times, eyes that will see my beauty at my ugliest times, and a heart that will love me at my worst. The [u]successful marriage[/u] is not when we [u]can[/u] live in peace [u]with[/u] our spouse, but when we [u]can't[/u] live in peace [u]without[/u] them.

When we will spot our spouse in Paradise, we will stare at each other in an awe of each other's beauty.

[Quran 30:21]:
[quote]"And of His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquility in them; and He planted love and compassion between you. In this are signs for people who reflect."[/quote]

If you don't intend to marry her, keep your hands off another man's wife. If you intend to marry her, keep your hands off until she's your wife. Real love starts after marriage.

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Pherick · 41-45, M

This always seems so backwards to me. How could you possible know if you have a real connection with someone if you "keep your hands off before marriage"?

I mean you don't have to bang each other silly on the first date .. but come on :)

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Madeleine · 41-45, F

@Pherick: People's feelings don't change, only moral codes do. If sleeping together before marriage became the norm, it doesn't mean it is for the better. Families used to be more united than they are nowadays, and that is for a reason.

It always depends on a woman and how much she values herself. Do I believe that men trick women? Yes, I do, in many cases. Especially naive and young girls. In how many cases a woman would sleep with a man then he disappears the next day?

However, regardless of people's behavior, my point was straightforward and clear: sex before marriage doesn't guarantee a successful marriage and it's wrong.

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Madeleine: I agree sex before marriage doesn't guarantee a successful marriage, but I disagree that its wrong :)

Thanks for the discussion about this.

Madeleine · 41-45, F

@Pherick: Of course, thank you for your comments as well.

SW-User

Nice post ❤
I hope you find him ☺

Madeleine · 41-45, F

Thank you very much.

SW-User

If you don't intend to marry her, keep your hands off another man's wife.
If you intend to marry her, keep your hands off until she's your wife.
Real love starts after marriage.

interesting Madeleine

Madeleine · 41-45, F

Thank you for taking the time to read.

Finerthings · 56-60, M

what if you make it clear that you have no intention of a marriage, purely a sexual relationship?

Madeleine · 41-45, F

Then both individuals have to take responsibility of their choice.

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