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So... today is the first day of marriage counseling. I am worried she will be convinced by his nice guy act and will only guilt me in further to stay.
SW-User
Ugh, I hope you have a better experience with this than I did.
Justpeaceandlove · 61-69, F
@StrangeWorld: lol, I need no lures :) You have a God-Given right to be and do what makes "YOU" happy. We've all been so use to trying to make others happy and doing things to please them we've totally forgotten about ourselves along the way.

Taking the first step to 'pleasing' yourself is the hardest but has to be done for your own sanity. It's a process... And it's NOT selfish to think of the real you, it's selfish not to. :)
SW-User
@Justpeaceandlove: Well thank you for the wise words...I do agree with them 100%. Maybe someday I'll find myself in a place where I'm ready to actually put them into practice.
Justpeaceandlove · 61-69, F
@StrangeWorld: Awareness! You got this! 😊😍
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Belovebelight · 36-40, F
I am hopeful we can get it done without a lawyer
Pleasingyou81 · 46-50, M
@Be-love-be-light: that's what always does it. We have 1 but it's scary as hell.
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
If she's a half decent therapist, shei see through his bullshit fairly quickly.
Belovebelight · 36-40, F
I am hopeful
Goralski · 51-55, M
The success rate for marriage counseling is near zilch
Justpeaceandlove · 61-69, F
But there's always the exception to the rule! :)
Goralski · 51-55, M
@Justpeaceandlove: yup: )
firefall · 61-69, M
If she does, you need a different counsellor because that one is crap.
DaveLiam78 · 31-35, M
Don't listen to these people. As someone who has actually counseled within the community and knows the struggles, it's great that you are getting help.

Look. I know you guys can work through things.
76starships · 46-50, M
Good luck, but I've found marriage counseling is not the best way if one of you is already checked out.

My ex used the counseling sessions as a mini courtroom. Not a good experience.
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yllacsar · 46-50, M
Dump that piece of shit and come snowboarding......
Want me to talk to your counselor??
Want me to talk to HIM ???
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Belovebelight · 36-40, F
I feel like he needs to therapy. Feel like he needs help coming to A Healthy conclusion
DaveLiam78 · 31-35, M
How did it go?

Don't listen to idiots telling u to leave.

 
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