I Have Something to Say

So...you change your mind. Not realizing how little the chances are of me being able to fall back in love with you are. You say the man you were is dead and this new you would never hurt me. You say if I don't give you another chance then I must not have ever really love you. How could you think I would stay for 16 years if I didn't love you. The only reason I stayed was because I didn't want to cause any pain... now ... you try again and my heart is content in the walls I have built.

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GoaskAlice · 56-60, F

Narcissist alert! Please keep your walls high. Be very very careful, you aleady were with him for 16 years.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Don't even argue with him. He is just coming up with whatever will get a response out of you, getting you to be defensive and argue with him. You've paid your dues for 16 years. Abusers never change. Because change is much, much harder than finding, luring and training a new victim...or, what's even easier, luring a long time victim back. Don't fall for it. Ideally, don't even communicate with him at all. He'll be waiting for you to get lonely, insecure and vulnerable. Then he'll hope to get you in a weak moment and crumble those walls.

Belovebelight · 36-40, F

I don't argue anymore...that one thing that told me I had stopped caring for him.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@Be-love-be-light: May things get better for you soon! I commend you for your wisdom and courage. Dare to dream a new dream!

zeeva70 · F

He sounds like a narcissist to me. You sound like you've learned not to fall for his tricks any more. Stay strong!

Shawnkautzman1 · 51-55, M

Yes.stay strong dear ☺

yllacsar · 46-50, M

Dump that lying ass....

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