My goal is

to not care what people think. Honestly thinking about it, my need for everyone to like me gets in the way of everything I want to do. My own happiness.

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“Because one believes in oneself, one doesn't try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, one doesn't need others' approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her.”
― Lao Tzu

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

That's a good quote👌

SW-User

@Itsprincess: I'm pretty fond of it.

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@malcontent: me too now 😋

SW-User

I just accept that people will view me how they will. Besides, I don't want everyone to like me. Too much work, it's impossible, and some people are awful.
Good luck to you 🍀

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

Oh right, that's true. Thankss😊

Syktur · 26-30, M

It's a really good goal to have. Life becomes a lot more carefree when you are able to push what people think aside. I wish you the best with this goal.

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

Yeah I bet. Thank you😊

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

I do. But not in terms of myself. Not about being good enough.

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Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerOfThumbs: that's not unfortunate, that's a good thing😊 I guess I was talking in terms of when I'm worried if someone thinks I'm ugly or they don't like my opinions etc

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

@Itsprincess: It is not. It can be stressful though ~smiles~ I know it can be difficult, but if you can learn ways to worry less about you life gets a lot happier. Most people are more worried about themselves to notices things like how you look, what you are wearing and unless your opinion directly affects them in the moment, they will quickly forget. Enjoy your evening!

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerOfThumbs: oh right, but it shows you are a good person. Yeah I guess, thanks you too 😊

Teirdalin · 31-35

I already like everyone, except for all the people on my block list; although that is only a few.

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

Yeah, I guess as long as someone is nice and respectful it would be hard for someone to not like them.

goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F

That's the way! :)

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

Took me this long to realise👀😊

SW-User

that would make u a sociopath

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