Is it normal that I don't feel competent at 23?
Like lately, I seem to have lost faith in myself and my abilities
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PhoenixPhail · M
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Solona · 31-35, F
@offingg: I'm only four years older than you. I think there are two types of people, those who are over confident in themselves, and those who aren't confident enough. At 27, I've been on both sides. Trust me, you'll be fine
offingg · 26-30, F
@Solona: I figured from your age range, I hope all is well with you :)
Solona · 31-35, F
@offingg: and I hope the same for you
Existentior · M
Why yes, it is normal. Today's economically unstable society projects a tidal wave of unaccomplished people.
I think you feel this way because there were some dickheads (such as the school system) in your life who made you feel this way.
I think you feel this way because there were some dickheads (such as the school system) in your life who made you feel this way.
offingg · 26-30, F
Lol, we all have those
SW-User
Nope, it's a part of growing. Don't lose faith in yourself though, just maybe use this time to explore other abilities you may have but never tried to use before :)
offingg · 26-30, F
How was it like for you at 23 though?
SW-User
At 23, we'll I was stuck between choosing a job I thought I wanted and one that I didn't like. And also still not sure what I wanted to go to college for. It was a time that I had to sit myself down and look at things differently, even got into a really low point of depression, but eventually I opened my eyes and saw that the job I thought I wanted wasn't the one, and that college I finally decided to do something I enjoyed rather than something that I thought I needed to be. Just a time of growth honestly :)
SINAI · T
You piece of shit.
bijouxbroussard · F
What is [b]wrong[/b] with you ? 😡
SINAI · T
@bijouxbroussard: I've got issues.
bijouxbroussard · F
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
specify your abilities stranger
offingg · 26-30, F
Well, I don't how to exactly word it but I thought I was ar a stage where i'm at oeace with myself and aelf sufficient, but turns out not yet
It's a mix of everything. Career, esucation, life
It's a mix of everything. Career, esucation, life
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@offingg: well I am not very good at anything, but im not very bad either. I'm quite average, but hey, that's why we can practice. Never stop practicing, and you'll never stop achieving/impressing.
What's your education, career and life then?
What's your education, career and life then?
candycane · 31-35, F
go prove yourself again girl
offingg · 26-30, F
Thank you, that encouraged me