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Oh yes, I do. Usually it's due to my own avoidance of uncomfortable social situations, or more accurately, my avoidance of "real" assholes, and/or my occasional inability to control my emotions in the company of others to not seem like an asshole, or the general lack of ability to control the way others perceive my emotions and the begrudging acceptance that others must "take me as I am" because there's no other way about it, in my world. I feel guilty for feeling anything at all, though, especially if someone is a witness to me, but synonymously, I will not perform for others unless I have no other option and will be ridden destitute, etc. And. Most people are assholes, and that makes me an asshole to others, 'cause I'm not like most people (or anyone I've ever known). There's no way to escape the asshole.
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@LesDeplorable: Child rearing is definitely a life-long learning process. I can't really blame anyone for the missteps along the way. It's an incredible responsibility to have, especially in a Western country where children are expected to achieve more than their ancestors.
Seeing as how you now have teenage children, what advice would you give to new parents out there?
Seeing as how you now have teenage children, what advice would you give to new parents out there?
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@LesDeplorable: No, I don't, but I appreciate your insight on the matter. We're in an age of unprecedented technology and social changes, so raising a child in these times can prove daunting to a lot of new parents out there. I think that genuine communication is key towards steering them in a positive direction. I can take comfort in knowing that at least some parents out there understand the importance of it.
Do you ever find yourself at odds with the kinds of changes your children wish to make?
Do you ever find yourself at odds with the kinds of changes your children wish to make?
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I understand completely. Some people are more inclined towards small talk than others, but it does little to shake away the social expectations of entertaining those around us. I understand what it's like to pretend to be engaged in conversations that don't appeal to you personally. But I understand that sometimes our patience on those matters pales in comparison to the value others receive
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If I may ask, why do you think so?
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@HalfCactus: you may ask but I may not be able to explain
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@Peacepuppyx: Well, it doesn't personally affect my life, so I am not inclined to press for answers. But for the sake of progeny, what inclines you to answer that you are one?
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