Can you wear what ever you want to a wedding. The reason I ask is because my mom went to a...

SW-User

it's just kinda in poor taste. like wearing thigh high boots and miniskirt to a funeral, there's not a lot of respect for the event and the people involved when you pick some things for attire.

Mondayschild · F

She should have shown more respect to the wedding couple and their families. Your mom has a legitimate reason to be concerned but she is over reacting just a bit.

hopefuldreamer · 36-40, F

Idk my mom also do it.She is very particular about what I need to wear in social gatherings.Mom's are good observers I guess.However my father is always concerned about food.My father over reacts over quality of food.He will make sure we all eat each variety.He over reacts if food is not good in weddings.Dad is foodie ,so even he over reacts we know its his love for food.

nonsensiclesnail · F

A tank top to a wedding is kind of tacky. Weddings are a special event that you are invited to and expected to dress the part. Still,I don't see why your mom cares enough to complain.

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

Usually the couple set the tone of their wedding based on time of day, the decorations, and their choice if dress. My thing it if I'm the bride, I'm just going to be happy that someone cared enough to come to my wedding.

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yeronlyman · 51-55, M

Ah generally there is an effort to be made
Dressing up is the custom

Therefore dressing down is a no-no
It's a basic courtesy
But not everyone follows it

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Sadie14 · F

That's not appropriate to wear to a wedding assuming the dress code isn't casual.

DxNxA

It's a bit old fashioned. . But smart is the key