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SatyrService · M
@passingby8 to start, the short answers to your questions
I have been a "Daddy Dom, but am not in such a relationship now. i have had there serious such, and a number of "playtimes" more shorter lived experiences.
My entry to the BDSM worls came a long time ago, and the request of a lover.
I will learn ANYTHING my lover wants to try , within reasons (no [i]real[/i] violence, some others)
turns out I was good at it.
it is important to note that those practices are not [i]requirements[/i] for my romantic partners. Just a thing i am good at and enjoy. I am happy, capable and satisfied in more "ordinary " ways
DDLG is a very particular thing with a very strong and detailed emotional content.
I will go into that [u]below the link[/u] i hope you will read
[b]let me suggest a longish read, from my own posts,
it will give what I think of as the ground rules, in any part of the BDSM lifestyle.
[/b]
https://similarworlds.com/5997655-I-Lets-Discuss-Dominance-and-Submission/1287662-So-you-think-you-wan-to-try-some-Bondage-It-looked
DD/LG or DD/BG is not just one kind of play, but many layers each with its own purpose to satisfy.
1) casual Taboo. the sub/babygirl is interested in exploring the taboo, the forbidden. and there is little more forbidden than incest.
it is a testing of boundaries, and [i]perhaps[/i] like you, the desire for a sample, a taste.
2)A more nuanced emotional experience, related to life experience.
in most families there are difficulties and tensions as the child becomes a teenager, becomes more independent and yes sexually aware. in boys this is usually rebellion against dad.
but for the girls it is different, [i]for some[/i] the Loving Daddy, they have had all their life? starts being colder, more standoffish, shorter hugs,, He feels uncomfortable, now that his lil girl is suddenly a sexual being that he is [i]suppose not to notice.
[/i] She experiences this as rejection, combined with new sexual feelings can be sort of traumatic.
DD/lg, can revisit this,, she gets the loving daddy that s so sweet and kind and gentle with his girl, she returns to that cherished and safe feeling of Strong Papa that cares for his girl.
THE th other side is the release of the pent up sexual feeling she has for daddy, as her body matures. all the repressed sexuality can come out, and it is often Extraordinarily Powerful. and yet return to tender care,
It can be a most romantic relations ship, and the sexual part of it can be more conventional.. or a gate to more extreme experiences.
now, ask me some Questions?
I have been a "Daddy Dom, but am not in such a relationship now. i have had there serious such, and a number of "playtimes" more shorter lived experiences.
My entry to the BDSM worls came a long time ago, and the request of a lover.
I will learn ANYTHING my lover wants to try , within reasons (no [i]real[/i] violence, some others)
turns out I was good at it.
it is important to note that those practices are not [i]requirements[/i] for my romantic partners. Just a thing i am good at and enjoy. I am happy, capable and satisfied in more "ordinary " ways
DDLG is a very particular thing with a very strong and detailed emotional content.
I will go into that [u]below the link[/u] i hope you will read
[b]let me suggest a longish read, from my own posts,
it will give what I think of as the ground rules, in any part of the BDSM lifestyle.
[/b]
https://similarworlds.com/5997655-I-Lets-Discuss-Dominance-and-Submission/1287662-So-you-think-you-wan-to-try-some-Bondage-It-looked
DD/LG or DD/BG is not just one kind of play, but many layers each with its own purpose to satisfy.
1) casual Taboo. the sub/babygirl is interested in exploring the taboo, the forbidden. and there is little more forbidden than incest.
it is a testing of boundaries, and [i]perhaps[/i] like you, the desire for a sample, a taste.
2)A more nuanced emotional experience, related to life experience.
in most families there are difficulties and tensions as the child becomes a teenager, becomes more independent and yes sexually aware. in boys this is usually rebellion against dad.
but for the girls it is different, [i]for some[/i] the Loving Daddy, they have had all their life? starts being colder, more standoffish, shorter hugs,, He feels uncomfortable, now that his lil girl is suddenly a sexual being that he is [i]suppose not to notice.
[/i] She experiences this as rejection, combined with new sexual feelings can be sort of traumatic.
DD/lg, can revisit this,, she gets the loving daddy that s so sweet and kind and gentle with his girl, she returns to that cherished and safe feeling of Strong Papa that cares for his girl.
THE th other side is the release of the pent up sexual feeling she has for daddy, as her body matures. all the repressed sexuality can come out, and it is often Extraordinarily Powerful. and yet return to tender care,
It can be a most romantic relations ship, and the sexual part of it can be more conventional.. or a gate to more extreme experiences.
now, ask me some Questions?
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SatyrService · M
@passingby8 i mention the incest component because [i]for some people [/i][c=#003BB2]not al[/c] that IS a thing
my interest s Not incestual. it is about being able to show more than a normal amount of [i]care and affection[/i]. to be able tocombine the sub/dom relationship with a more dlcate emotional content,
you may recal reading this passage??
[quote]The Dominant, is not there to be a glutton, going wild with the physical control of another, just some oppressive bully. Instead, the they are to be exquisitely in touch with the most subtle nuances of feeling in the Subordinate, and to act in ways to maximize that persons intensity of experience, and to safeguard them from that which they do not truly want.
Dominion is not about breaking the Will of another. It is about fulfilling that Will. It is not about harming another, but freeing them to reach and feel all they have sought.[/quote]
my interest s Not incestual. it is about being able to show more than a normal amount of [i]care and affection[/i]. to be able tocombine the sub/dom relationship with a more dlcate emotional content,
you may recal reading this passage??
[quote]The Dominant, is not there to be a glutton, going wild with the physical control of another, just some oppressive bully. Instead, the they are to be exquisitely in touch with the most subtle nuances of feeling in the Subordinate, and to act in ways to maximize that persons intensity of experience, and to safeguard them from that which they do not truly want.
Dominion is not about breaking the Will of another. It is about fulfilling that Will. It is not about harming another, but freeing them to reach and feel all they have sought.[/quote]
passingby8 · 31-35, F
@SatyrService Ok,well I don't understand than why the majority of what you said had to do with daddy issues or incest..Anyways thanks for your input on it but I think I will continue to do my own research on it.
SatyrService · M
@passingby8 the biggest part, is the extended care and kindness.
for me there is no incest cmponent as i have no children.. i DO enjoy spoiling a girl,,giving her all the care.. but still take command in the bed.
i WAS describing a larger world. there are so many forms of BDSM
for me there is no incest cmponent as i have no children.. i DO enjoy spoiling a girl,,giving her all the care.. but still take command in the bed.
i WAS describing a larger world. there are so many forms of BDSM
passingby8 · 31-35, F
Ok?
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passingby8 · 31-35, F
@SatyrService alright than,well any info you can share about ddlg I'd appreciate I'm still not sure it's something I want but I'm interested in learning more about it.Are you a daddy Dom?Or ever been one?How long have you been practicing bdsm?
SatyrService · M
@passingby8 to start, the short answers to your questions
I have been a "Daddy Dom, but am not in such a relationship now. i have had there serious such, and a number of "playtimes" more shorter lived experiences.
My entry to the BDSM worls came a long time ago, and the request of a lover.
I will learn ANYTHING my lover wants to try , within reasons (no [i]real[/i] violence, some others)
turns out I was good at it.
it is important to note that those practices are not [i]requirements[/i] for my romantic partners. Just a thing i am good at and enjoy. I am happy, capable and satisfied in more "ordinary " ways
DDLG is a very particular thing with a very strong and detailed emotional content.
I will go into that [u]below the link[/u] i hope you will read
[b]let me suggest a longish read, from my own posts,
it will give what I think of as the ground rules, in any part of the BDSM lifestyle.
[/b]
https://similarworlds.com/5997655-I-Lets-Discuss-Dominance-and-Submission/1287662-So-you-think-you-wan-to-try-some-Bondage-It-looked
DD/LG or DD/BG is not just one kind of play, but many layers each with its own purpose to satisfy.
1) casual Taboo. the sub/babygirl is interested in exploring the taboo, the forbidden. and there is little more forbidden than incest.
it is a testing of boundaries, and [i]perhaps[/i] like you, the desire for a sample, a taste.
2)A more nuanced emotional experience, related to life experience.
in most families there are difficulties and tensions as the child becomes a teenager, becomes more independent and yes sexually aware. in boys this is usually rebellion against dad.
but for the girls it is different, [i]for some[/i] the Loving Daddy, they have had all their life? starts being colder, more standoffish, shorter hugs,, He feels uncomfortable, now that his lil girl is suddenly a sexual being that he is [i]suppose not to notice.
[/i] She experiences this as rejection, combined with new sexual feelings can be sort of traumatic.
DD/lg, can revisit this,, she gets the loving daddy that s so sweet and kind and gentle with his girl, she returns to that cherished and safe feeling of Strong Papa that cares for his girl.
THE th other side is the release of the pent up sexual feeling she has for daddy, as her body matures. all the repressed sexuality can come out, and it is often Extraordinarily Powerful. and yet return to tender care,
It can be a most romantic relations ship, and the sexual part of it can be more conventional.. or a gate to more extreme experiences.
now, ask me some Questions?
I have been a "Daddy Dom, but am not in such a relationship now. i have had there serious such, and a number of "playtimes" more shorter lived experiences.
My entry to the BDSM worls came a long time ago, and the request of a lover.
I will learn ANYTHING my lover wants to try , within reasons (no [i]real[/i] violence, some others)
turns out I was good at it.
it is important to note that those practices are not [i]requirements[/i] for my romantic partners. Just a thing i am good at and enjoy. I am happy, capable and satisfied in more "ordinary " ways
DDLG is a very particular thing with a very strong and detailed emotional content.
I will go into that [u]below the link[/u] i hope you will read
[b]let me suggest a longish read, from my own posts,
it will give what I think of as the ground rules, in any part of the BDSM lifestyle.
[/b]
https://similarworlds.com/5997655-I-Lets-Discuss-Dominance-and-Submission/1287662-So-you-think-you-wan-to-try-some-Bondage-It-looked
DD/LG or DD/BG is not just one kind of play, but many layers each with its own purpose to satisfy.
1) casual Taboo. the sub/babygirl is interested in exploring the taboo, the forbidden. and there is little more forbidden than incest.
it is a testing of boundaries, and [i]perhaps[/i] like you, the desire for a sample, a taste.
2)A more nuanced emotional experience, related to life experience.
in most families there are difficulties and tensions as the child becomes a teenager, becomes more independent and yes sexually aware. in boys this is usually rebellion against dad.
but for the girls it is different, [i]for some[/i] the Loving Daddy, they have had all their life? starts being colder, more standoffish, shorter hugs,, He feels uncomfortable, now that his lil girl is suddenly a sexual being that he is [i]suppose not to notice.
[/i] She experiences this as rejection, combined with new sexual feelings can be sort of traumatic.
DD/lg, can revisit this,, she gets the loving daddy that s so sweet and kind and gentle with his girl, she returns to that cherished and safe feeling of Strong Papa that cares for his girl.
THE th other side is the release of the pent up sexual feeling she has for daddy, as her body matures. all the repressed sexuality can come out, and it is often Extraordinarily Powerful. and yet return to tender care,
It can be a most romantic relations ship, and the sexual part of it can be more conventional.. or a gate to more extreme experiences.
now, ask me some Questions?