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Am I weird?

This question isn't really worth asking but it just happened so I figured what the heck

Ok so I had to go to an auditorium at college today to watch the final presidential debate.. Seeing all of them was mandatory

A guy I had never seen or met before sat next to me and we talked for like 3 min and then for the next 3 hours we had to sit there and be quiet but for someeeee reason he put his knee up against my leg and for some reason I didn't even move away and we basically were touching the entire time which I didn't mind because I was freezing and his knee was warm... Every time he accidentally moved away he'd come back so he made it obvious.

ANWAY I'm just wondering if it's at all normal to sort of cuddle with a stranger Or if I'm actually as weird as I think?
SoggedNapped · 31-35, M
He was pressing into your private space, pardon the pun. BUT on some level you allowed him to do so. I can see accidental contact once or twice.. but since you didn't say or react negatively to it, it sounds like he stopped worring about it.

I think that we all crave personal contact.. he wasn't threatening and you liked that he was warm. I think the concept is normal - the act might be a little creepy.
Summergirly · 26-30, F
I'm a virgin and he's a virgin lol and he's not the type to get physical with anyone
SoggedNapped · 31-35, M
@AFlowerThatBloomedInAdversity: He is getting physical with you.. but I understand.. just go with it.. and enjoy and know where your boundaries are, yes?
Summergirly · 26-30, F
Haha he already left. We are very innocent
Lolco · 36-40, M
It's completely normal as he made you feel very comfortable... I hope you guys exchanged numbers/ or Facebook/ Instagram/ MySpace ummm something
Lolco · 36-40, M
@TheFlowerThatBloomsInAdversity: is it because he didn't ask, like would you had he asked?
Summergirly · 26-30, F
@Lolco-: yeah honestly but I probably wouldn't date him since I don't date anyone
Lolco · 36-40, M
@TheFlowerThatBloomsInAdversity: why is that? Are you A-sexual
SW-User
Id start planning the wedding!
CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M
It's weird. That was his subtle way of hitting on you that was not subtle at all.
Yes, this.
Summergirly · 26-30, F
I hadn't slept in like 48 hours so I was too tired to be bothered but I was thinking like... I have no idea what's societally fine vs. whats a big deal.
No one ever got a disease or baby from a knee-to-knee grope.
Go for the knee, rub away!
Enjoy a kneegasm.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
He liked you you... would have been good if it had progressed
Summergirly · 26-30, F
Lol that's crazy but maybe if I'm actually interested in him I will
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Yeah... obviously only with guys you're interested in... but why is it crazy?
Summergirly · 26-30, F
@Motherfuckerjones: because that's not really socially acceptable lol
Not at all if it's limited and fir survival like heat 👍 you're fine. Just keep your hands off to avoid them thinking it'll go somewhere
SW-User
its different some people might have been creeped out.
Summergirly · 26-30, F
I feel like the "normal" reaction is to be creeped out
SW-User
dont worry u won't get pregnant
Not seeing a problem, personally.
Bashful1 · 26-30, M
Being weird just means your cool
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ajsk13 · 51-55, M
it's flirting

 
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