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Is it normal?

For a guy to reward and punish you.. Like if you say something bad and don't do what he wants and he ignores you for a week on purpose and then comes back? He says he does this with everyone and it's the only way to teach people how to act towards him otherwise they don't change
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Fuck that. How about a simple conversation? That seems like a better approach.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@rottenrobi: yes I definitely will!:) I think I'll say goodbye and block him. Or I might just block him now
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
You're awesome!
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@rottenrobi: mee? Says you, thankss 😊
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Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@Soccergirl2016: you make me laugh 😂
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Itsprincess · 22-25, F
😂
getmeouttahere · 36-40, F
Sounds like emotional abuse to me.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@getmeouttahere: ohh 😮 he actually said he can't be with me though because of how I'm acting and I need to get emotionally stronger at least for myself. So I dunno why he would say everythings my fault if he doesn't want to be with me?x
getmeouttahere · 36-40, F
He's playing mind games. Read some about emotional abuse and narcissism, once you understand it you'll see right through his crap.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Ohh right, thank you 😊
Xena1234 · 51-55, F
He is a real controller. I have a feeling that if his childish tactics don't work, then he will become very abusive. He needs to have his tactics turned back on him.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Okay I wont. Thank you:)
Xena1234 · 51-55, F
@Itsprincess: I know it is easier said than done. Believe me, I tried and tried and went back to him. Finally, one day I finally realized that I had to care about myself, and that he was too damaged. I wish you the best.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@Xena1234: oh really:/ I'm thinking I'm gonna change my phone number and delete accounts so that I can't go back to him haha. Thanks😊
SandInMyShoes · 36-40, F
That's a real control freak right there.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Yeahh controlling that's what it is
Alphie · 31-35, M
It's a passive aggressive manipulation technique. This is not normal, and can be highly pathological towards others and oneself.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Oh right:/
SW-User
Sounds like he is a narcissist. Perhaps a break from him will be a good idea
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Seems it yeah, he said the other day 'I'm much smarter than most people' 😂
SW-User
@Itsprincess: Definitely a narcissist :)
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@Asphaltcowboy: great😂
SW-User
That's bullshit. Don't put up with that behavior
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Alright thank you :)
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Run. Don't walk. Now. Not only is he treating you as a child, he's being a dysfunctional "parent"
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Lol, yeah thats what it feels like😩 thankss
i would send him to see a psychiatrist. probably put my foot up his ass first. LOL
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Lmao okay😂
No that's not normal at all he sounds like a sociopath.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Oh right👀
Salix75 · 46-50, F
No. That's immature and manipulative. Red flag to emotional abuse
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Ohh okay, thank you
He's childish and spoiled.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Ohh:/
SW-User
Hmm..
He sounds like mental ..lol 😜
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Haha does he 👀
He's playing power games with you.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Oh right:/
Doomflower · 36-40, M
I have an ex like that.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Good that he's just an ex aha
AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M
He sounds passive-aggressive .... RUN !!
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Lol running rn
AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M
@Itsprincess: Good girl !!
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@AllAboutLaffs: :)
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