Would you tell a partner you loved them as soon as you felt it?

@Adelh91: 🤔 Maybe you should tell him how you feel I have to admit I lie and hold some things back from him in fear of him breaking up with me

@BlackAphrodite: well it has to be better than walking on eggshells I guess

@Adelh91: I guess if you tell him how you feel I'm pretty sure if he's understanding he'll listen and tell you how he also feels

Yeah the earlier it is the crazier you seem. I wait it out now

Yeah me too, that's why I hold back now so I can be sure in myself

I mean I do have feelings for him but personally think it's too early to say, from experience of past relationships anyway

Well...all I can say is that I've seen way too many relationships fail or not be realized due to words unshared or spoken too late.

If you can't be and show everything you are to someone without restraints, is it really ok to be together? If he's the type to get scared or use it to his advantage, why would it be any different saying it now or later?

I'm a blunt, do or die kind of guy so I'm merely sharing my opinion. In the end, you're the one that knows him and yourself and has to deal with the consequences. Asking different opinions before taking action is the mature and responsible way to reach a decision you can be comfortable with.

Even if you thought it was too early to say?

@Adelh91: i wouldnt really consider them my partner at least romantically unless we loved each other. or at least liked and trusted each other alot in which case i wouldnt feel weird about admitting to them that i loved them.

Very, very good point. My heart tends to get trampled on when I give it away so I'll wait it out

@Adelh91: good call ,let them say it first and often before you do

I always tell friends I love them, but this is a different kind of love I guess

@Adelh91: it is different