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My ex-fiance just messaged me on FB after 7 years of no-contact....What would you do?

...>_>;;

Assume they say "hi how are you anyway?"

SW-User Best Comment

Unfortunately. No good can come of this...people tend to look up their ex's when they are in a rebound or needy situation. It would kind of bother me how cavalier that message was after 7 years. I mean she's had 7 fucking years...that's all she has to say?

But only you two know the real deal so use your best judgement and good luck!

elVato · 46-50, M

booty call.
*sigh*

UreBesFrend · M

I agree about the rebound thing, she likely just broke up with someone else.

Fishy · F

Reply to her 7 years from now

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

LOL

lillyd · F

hilarious

juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F

Hehe

SW-User

depends on what happened in your previous relationship! only you know the answer!

Mondayschild · F

After I got over the shock I would probably lay low for a while

BrightLight750 · 56-60, M

Sounds like something changed in her life recently. You are probably different people now so should not assume anything would/should happen. Only reply if this is totally healthy for you, otherwise you don't owe her anything

DarkenedSoul · 22-25, F

Honey if you still feel to reply then you obviously still care for her and haven't moved on. Like this should not excite you.like omg she messaged me . Honestly hear her out or whatever but shit don't get dragged back in

SW-User

I wouldn't respond. It's over.

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jjoe01

I'd be freaked out. LOL

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

Tell me about it. @_@

SW-User

poke her

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

Like, with a sharp object?

AnonymouslyMe · 36-40, F

7 years is so long, they would feel like a stranger to me. Hopefully you've let go of any negative feelings towards her because 7 years is a long time to hold on to pain :(

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

Yeah, especially teenagers, because there's so much development in the 20s. Total stranger.

Dewkissedrose · 46-50, F

I messaged my exes once. Some people are like that. I wasn't offended if they didn't respond. I guess even if things didn't work out, I know that I still care and wanted to check on them. I will say.... it is an odd thing to do. lol

ShockWave1983 · 36-40, F

Tell her only the best of everything. Especially if she hurt you when you broke up. The best revenge is a happy life. Tell her you've been living happy and things are great.

UreBesFrend · M

Maybe she wants to know if you suffered after you broke it off with her, or she with you, or maybe she wants to try it again now that both of you are more mature?

YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M

Would say hi and listen to whatever (s)he's babbling about, if I'd time.

SStarfish ·

😳 idk it depends on how you feel about them I don't know them or why you both got broken up 😳

SW-User

Reply "Much better without you" LOL

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

lol

PoizonApple · 41-45, F

What did she say?

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

"hi how are you anyway?" >_>;

PoizonApple · 41-45, F

Well, this all really depends on what kind of an effect she had on your life and if talking to her holds value to you. If she was a toxic influence, you don't need that now.

Sassyshooter · 41-45

Did it end on bad terms ?

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

Not really. We still hung out from time to time afterwards.

Sassyshooter · 41-45

Then I would reply in a similar way then

elVato · 46-50, M

christmas booty call?

SW-User

Depends what she said...

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

nothing.

juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F

Send her a selfie with you holding your cock

SW-User

I wouldn't know. Never had a fiance; just a bf & a gf.

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

It would depend on why she contacted me.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

What was your relationship like? I know I would be terrified.

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

Well, we were engaged. So pretty awesome. Until she went to the military, then long-distance ruined it.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Hmmm. Approach with caution. My feeling is she wants something.

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

@uncalled4: Right, right. Probably. Either self-esteem boost or leverage or something like that.

NCCindy · 36-40, F

Be adult and respond !!!

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