How he treats you is how he feels about you???

I disagree, I've had enough brain damage that I struggle to feel emotion at all, only when I have time to reconsider do i begin to be able to imagine acting like I feel then doing it is the goal, but I don't know how to act; especially given the situation, as I see it.

And how they feel about themselves

Not always

what if he leaves you on the side of the road like your garbage and tdestroys your self-worth and beats you down to the ground and walks away like your nothing.. :(

😶 Hmm

No doubt...
... and also... how he treats you on day's he is down...

It's a combination of words and actions.

You mean, several periods

Yep

Nope

not always

True