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why does everyone have to be drinking alcohol to have fun?

why does everyone drink? i mean all the people im trying to be friends with drink when they hang out and its really hard to hang out with them. i jut dont want people to drink to have fun, its too common and its impossible to find people that dont drink, thats all i want people that dont drink. Im allergic to alcohol, and im deathly afraid of bars. i hate how everyone has to drink to have fun, i can die from even just a bit of alcohol. i really want a dance party where you dance without having any alcohol allowed there. I also dont like groups, i like to be close with one person, i always get left out of the situation when im with more then one person. i always feel like i dont matter as much as the other person.
Malchya · M
I don't drink. I actually do not get along with drunks. Too much alcoholism in my life without me adding to it. I firmly believe that you do [b]NOT[/b] have to drink to have fun. Just let them know how you feel, and if they give you grief, then they aren't the friends you need.
that would be everyone, i tell everyone dont drink around me, when im not around drink as much as you want but not in front of me. i have no Friends because no one agrees to not drink around me. they just try to get me to drink.
Malchya · M
I've been there. I had to be firm about it and just look for a new set of people with whom to hang out. My father was an alcoholic; both of my grandfathers; three of my uncles. It is a slippery slope I choose not to start down. Just be strong.

What do you like to do for entertainment? That might offer a different venue.
@Malchya: i cant afford that venue especially where i live. i enjoy swimming and weightlifting.
SoggedNapped · 31-35, M
You don't have to drink to have fun - at all :) Not sure why you think you do or your friends do.
thankyou, i dont know either i just dont want people to drink around me and thats why i dont have friends.
SoggedNapped · 31-35, M
@Girlyfriendcollecting: you have to let them drink and be them- as you know, you can't control others- just yourself
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ItsDanny · M
yeah people that are too boring to have fun by themselves,I rather not have friends like that since alcohol only ruins your life
SW-User
alcohol can lower some walls people have built up. also help diminishing their inhibitions. and such..
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
There are many people who don't drink silly.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
speak for yourself

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NigelDoes · 56-60, M
@nedkelly: I definitely was not speaking for myself Lee. :-)
LivAbit · 46-50, M
It's tough in your twenties
SW-User
i prefer ecstasy
SW-User
just to fit in
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xRedx · M
I know right! Why do some people think that?! I drink ocassionaly buy not to have a good time.
SailorMarz · F
I wish i had friends that liked to drink -.-
i know i feel like i should live in a country where alcohol is banned like India, but i dont like thoes countries, also saudi arabia and a couple in Africa, but they are not good places to live.
SailorMarz · F
@Girlyfriendcollecting: just don't associate yourself with ppl like that
@SailorMarzz: that would be all of them and i already feel alone, i want to make friends and i cant find any.
1961dave · 61-69, M
I know what you mean, nobody even tries to think of anything else to do. Also it's "cool " to drink!
SW-User
the problem seems to be with you. not them.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
I dont drink much anymore

 
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