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I'm Looking For Genuine Connections With Kindhearted People

I wish I could meet someone I can trust and depend on. I was just reminded of it again. I met someone last week I thought maybe could go somewhere. He tells me he loves me and who I am as a person and wants to meet, etc. I never hear from him unless I text first and yesterday I text and he says I'm smothering him. Today I've heard nothing at all.

I give a lot of myself in relationships and potential relationships. If someone is interested why is it bad to want to check in and say hello... I'm thinking of you, etc?
SW-User
Meaningful relationships (or even friendships) take time to establish. If online (and I'm thinking this is what your talking about) can take even longer. Without talking, seeing body language, etc your never really sure of what they say, they even mean. Who is to say he's not also talking with other women, playing the field a bit, maybe feeding his ego. If I were you, I'd say you've missed out on being played. Otherwise why would he talk about love so soon? I see a red flag straight away and I'd consider you lucky. Move on and leave him to whatever he's doing.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
I had a scammer target me. They were quite good but I know a few tricks. So watch for that too.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Definitely does not love you. I think it is the age old adage there are many more toads than there are princes
Sinnerwithaheart · 56-60, F
It's not a bad thing at all. Hugs to you...I'm so sorry.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Yeah, pretty shallow. May I suggest making a connection and moving a bit more cautiously? Someone can't love you in a week. At the very least you make a good friend. Timing plays so much in matters of the heart. Hugs! 🤗
boudinMan · 61-69, M
i guess some people are just that way, tender. i'm not sure what this guy's personal situation is, but maybe he wants to keep things on the 'down low'. beware of 'scammers'. how have you been?
Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M
@TH it's not a bad thing (unless maybe doing it 20 times an hour...). Maybe they are involved with someone else?
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
Sounds like the wrong kinda guy, dawwwwwg. You can never be too attached on here.. ʅʕ•ᴥ•ʔʃ
yuki4you · 31-35, F
I think I experienced that as well
I don't think it's bad to want to check in and say hello, but just because someone may not want to do that doesn't necessarily mean they're not a kindred spirit. It simply may not be their preference.
agreatday · 56-60, M
he fell in love with you in one week?
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
Yeah I know. I was hoping but I also know a lot of people say it and don't mean it. I wish people would only say it if they meant it. I do know love is a verb. He hasn't followed through with actions :(
agreatday · 56-60, M
i'm sorry.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Really sorry. Hang in there. Someone is out there for you. Just have patience. 😊

 
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