Has anyone here ever been stalked?
For those of you who know me know I used to mess with a younger girl about 2 years ago.... it didn't work for several reasons mainly due to the fact that she was very immature & not sweet at all - & had a bit of a hygiene problem but I would never tell her that- (I'm not into attitude/ or that tough act) so I tried to remain friends but I soon realized this was impossible as she would always "try to change my mind" & would say yes let's be friends & when I would completely avoid and or ignore her advances or trying to get close she would completely flip & I would ignore or flat out avoid her....
well I soon realized no, it is impossible for me to try & maintain a friendship so I completely cut her out by ignoring her phone calls / texts etc... well finally she got the point & said since I don't want to talk to her she will stop reaching out, I knew I would miss her friendship but I couldn't be happier, ok after all this I found some one, created this amazing friendship & she turned out to be absolutely wonderful I couldn't have wished for anyone better, & eventually we started dating... yes we have our problems/ issues as I would assume most couples do but I'm very happy with her.....
fast forward a year & a half later & the other friend would constantly call & text.... i ignored .... she later sent me a pic of a birthday card I had given her prior & told me she reads it every time she's feeling down, I thought really hard about responding, posted about it on here wether I should or shouldn't & every single body said the very same thing in different versions , 'NO'!!! Which basically confirmed how I felt... I'll be the 1st to admit that her constant "harassing" at first felt very flattering ..... in the middle it went from flattering to overwhelming like wow!! She doesn't get the point..... to now it's going somewhere else & it's creepy, concerning, & I feel she's doing it maliciously in case I'm dating someone (which of course I will never tell her that I am) ....
it has been 3 nights in a row where she would deliberately call me between 3-4 am in the morning.... I feel this is gonna turn into a big issue in my relationship eventually, & yes I could block her but she'll just call me from another number & yes I could change my number but I've been having my same number for over 10 years.... I would absolutely hate to change my # over a pettyness, I really would love to know how can I address this, I don't want to take stupid actions she's 23 I guess my 1st mistake was messing with someone soo young but at the same time it's her personality I don't think the age alone should justify such ridiculous behavior!!! What would you do?
P.s. (She literally just tried calling me just now this second I swear you can't make this shit up) !!!!!!
well I soon realized no, it is impossible for me to try & maintain a friendship so I completely cut her out by ignoring her phone calls / texts etc... well finally she got the point & said since I don't want to talk to her she will stop reaching out, I knew I would miss her friendship but I couldn't be happier, ok after all this I found some one, created this amazing friendship & she turned out to be absolutely wonderful I couldn't have wished for anyone better, & eventually we started dating... yes we have our problems/ issues as I would assume most couples do but I'm very happy with her.....
fast forward a year & a half later & the other friend would constantly call & text.... i ignored .... she later sent me a pic of a birthday card I had given her prior & told me she reads it every time she's feeling down, I thought really hard about responding, posted about it on here wether I should or shouldn't & every single body said the very same thing in different versions , 'NO'!!! Which basically confirmed how I felt... I'll be the 1st to admit that her constant "harassing" at first felt very flattering ..... in the middle it went from flattering to overwhelming like wow!! She doesn't get the point..... to now it's going somewhere else & it's creepy, concerning, & I feel she's doing it maliciously in case I'm dating someone (which of course I will never tell her that I am) ....
it has been 3 nights in a row where she would deliberately call me between 3-4 am in the morning.... I feel this is gonna turn into a big issue in my relationship eventually, & yes I could block her but she'll just call me from another number & yes I could change my number but I've been having my same number for over 10 years.... I would absolutely hate to change my # over a pettyness, I really would love to know how can I address this, I don't want to take stupid actions she's 23 I guess my 1st mistake was messing with someone soo young but at the same time it's her personality I don't think the age alone should justify such ridiculous behavior!!! What would you do?
P.s. (She literally just tried calling me just now this second I swear you can't make this shit up) !!!!!!