Has anyone ever had someone contact them out of the blue who they actually wanted to talk to?

That's because the interesting ones don't need to go seeking out people to listen to them.

Awwwwwww you seem so high maintenance

Yes

I can count on one hand the times people have randomly contacted me for non-sex related stuff. Only one was someone I enjoyed talking to.

I’m talking people from real life who have purposely sought you out.

Just [b]all[/b] the time

Yes I have.

yes

You have to be engaged & ask questions to get to the interesting stuff.

Yes: here, a number of times, like definitely over a dozen!