How do you quickly judge to say hi to a guy ?

Girls, what do you notice in a random guy you look at when in a mall, or cafe (any public place). Height, complexion, race, hair (or lack of hair), chin, shoulder, arms, feet, butt, teeth, big hand, facial expression? What makes you click to know that guy more or just avoid eye contact all-together?

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belseg · 31-35, F

The way he stands, confidence, smiling, I think I get attracted to the aura in general, I just feel it in me.. But then I can't judge unless I talk to the person, but my feelings never betray me .. So I don't have a specific thing that makes me want to talk to a guy, but when there is a click I just feel it, I can't explain it .. I don't know if this makes any sense ..

FindRyhan · 36-40, M

It makes a lot of sense.. Its like vibe coming from that person to you and you picked it up right.. I stopped looking at girls lately for some reasons, but when I used to, I could certainly know if the girl I have my eyes on wants to talk to me too. There is this invisible pull that can't be explained.

belseg · 31-35, F

Exactly .. though most of the time that pull doesn't last and the invisible cord disappeared without any obvious reason

FindRyhan · 36-40, M

Yes.. It is so momentary.. I felt this pull but ignore it and walk away from the situation. Out of site out of range. Clinking with someone, Liking her, being in love, then ending up in argumentative break ups - I do not want to be in that loop anymore..

Byeimoff

If I can look at a guy and not have a pretty good idea what his personality is, then I get intrigued... but most people you can tell who the are or are trying to be so I'm rarely intrigued

FindRyhan · 36-40, M

hahahah... you like secretive persons? :D

Byeimoff

@FindRyhan: no not necessarily secret or mysterious just not obvious 😊

tynamite · 31-35, M

creepy = ugly

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