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ever been so sleep deprived you cant even feel your own emotions

Every day I have told my husband for almost the last two years to please wake up with the baby on the weekends at least once so I can sleep just one night but he absolutely refuses to. I mean I had a c section with our son and I couldn't even get him to hand me the baby to feed him I had to get up every hour. I don't know how to get him to understand I run a house of seven, I have been doing everything alone. He doesn't get it. When the weekend comes he just hangs out and plays video games or works on his project cars or his friends cars. I feel so trapped. I love the man but his laziness is really starting to take a toll on me
Diane1949 · 70-79, F
I can't imagine living with a lazy man. I never have so all I can say is good luck.
Yeah my ex husband was very helpful with everything. I don't know what's wrong with my now husband
Th1nkF1rst · 70-79, M
~He will Never Change, complaining will do anything, complaining to Us does even less.
~You have let this go on way too long and he is going to do as he pleases until you both die.
~This "Every day I have told my husband for almost the last two years...." obviously Doesn't Work, haven't you noticed?
~Children don't stop doing bad things, UNLESS there are [u]Consequences[/u] that they doesn't like!
Otherwise yelling "Billy do not do THAT!" is worthless and Billy will "DO THAT" knowing that all you'll do is Yell Again, and he's used to your yelling.
~Your Husband is the SAME as Billy, he's numb to your complaints, and you've NEVER given him [u]Consequences that Matter Enough[/u] to him for him to change anything, EVER!!

SORRY!😕
Your absolutely right.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Wow. Seven. He needs to get off his ass....
@Ambroseguy80: what's worse is I don't get flowers, I don't get gifts, I don't buy new clothes or shoes, I ask for absolutely nothing. I just say can't you ever say anything nice or do something special and he just laughs and says no that it's fucking gay, he wasn't even to happy that i painted his project car as a gift. Just complained how long it took :(
@Ambroseguy80: thank you. And stay being a wonderful husband maybe someday I will find it in me to go be happy again
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]Reason numero uno why I don't do macho types. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. I'm all for "bumping" fair height. If he wakes up a changed man, all the better😆[/c]
Invisible · 26-30, M
I don't need to be sleep deprived for that.

And that sounds pretty shitty. Do you talk to him about it the way you present it here?
Yeah I do. He doesn't care though. He says it's not him job to do things in the house including taking care of the kids. I also work so hearing the excuse of him working annoys me more because I am never not doing something.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
Faced that after a mishap when I was 17

 
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