How do you forgive yourself for something that you did a long time ago?

I don't know if you can until you are ready to. I have always thought of it as a natural process, something that we can't rush. You have to find out the truth and sort through it.

acknowledge your wrong doing,forgive yourself first, then ask for the forgiveness of those that you have hurt and of those that hurt you.

It's not a matter of forgiving yourself but seeking forgiveness from those you hurt..

We can't change one second of the past. If revealing it to her now would hurt her then "I" wouldn't. Regrets are life lessons saying "I won't do that again." Learn the lesson and move on.

I don't!