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My mother is a whore

She always played on her good looks. She only married my father for money. She is an idiot really. She is not capable of any deep conversation. She plays little kid to get her accepted
4meAndyou · F
There comes a time in every child's life, (even adult children), when they discover that either their mother, their father, or perhaps even both, are not the models of perfection they had hoped, and the disillusionment is painful to see when parents topple from the child's pedestals.

My own mother was an abusive narcissist, was not very bright, but was cunning and manipulative. My father was judgemental, and something of a sexist in that he paid far more attention to his son than to his daughter.

We can remain locked in our disillusionment, or simply say to ourselves, "I was not lucky in the mother lottery." And then accept it, and move on. Sometimes, we can try to understand HOW the parent became that way...what were THEIR parents like, for example. Ultimately, complete understanding leads to forgiveness.
revenant · F
@4meAndyou you are so right . I do not know of any counsellor who does not peddle buzzwords and commie bullshit. I am living a really existential crisis now. Like death is very near.
4meAndyou · F
@revenant Keep calling the telephone numbers I gave you. You need, first, to deal with leaving your husband in France and your children. Women's shelters are experts on that.
revenant · F
@4meAndyou my husband and kids are in Canada. I am in France now. My husband deported me in a way. The pain is so intense and the loneliness so great I want to kill myself some days
Carazaa · F
@revenant
You don't have to be like her. You can have good values, love people, and love God more than money! You are a beautiful person.
Respect her and love her so it will go well for you though, and God will bless you!
Carazaa · F
@littlepuppywantanewlife Thanks, you are too for saying that hehe 🙈
@Carazaa 🤗
revenant · F
@Carazaa Never wanted to be like her😟
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Good looks are not everything, sounds like you have described your mother very well
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ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
Now she's old

She can't play on her looks no more
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
I wanna see a pic
Adstar · 56-60, M
Sad for you.
Sad for your Dad.
Sad for her.

People like that may fool themselves into thinking they are winners.. But they are very much losers in life..
Tell her that you owe all those wealth from your father. Time for you to be rich.
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
That’s not that unusual in the myriad of human behaviour
bookerdana · M
any progress on your flight✈️ and =hugs=
You must be my long lost sister.
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Hmmm oh yeah? Hmmmm
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I’m sorry hun 💚
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F

 
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