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Fantabulous · 46-50, F
We place so much value on appearance, but you are right, true value should be placed on someone who makes our soul happy
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@Fantabulous Appearence can play a factor but it also fades, every true connection I have had has been with someone I can talk to all day, that’s what makes me happy.
Morrigan · F
Looks fade. A beautiful mind lasts much longer. I personally find intelligence far more a turn on than looks.
SW-User
Yeah the same goes to any person. Attractiveness is a mixture of physical and personality
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@SW-User Yes I should have phrased it as anyone not just women, physical is the initial attraction, personality is the one that lasts. Nice hair btw! 🙂
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
I do have the hots for women in glasses or nerdy so u may be on to something there. 🤣
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@SarithBorn Glasses can be sexy, and if a girl is into the same shows/films/games/books as I am (nerdy) then there’s not much better!
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@DHggmu Smart women are the best 😇
TexChik · F
So you’re saying a woman would have to be fat and ugly in order to be intelligent , fun, have a sense of humor , and be kind ? Or is it that you trying make excuses because that’s all you can get ?
Coralmist · 41-45, F
Its so refreshing to hear that..most men and women seem to care primarily on looks. While its great to have chemistry on a physical level, its not a man's body I want to talk to or connect with, its his heart and mind.
BeefySenpie · M
It is, but [b]some[/b] degree of physical attraction is still essential
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@BeefySenpie Absolutely, I didn’t want this post to imply it’s either or, physical and sexual attraction are essential in a relationship.