Why are people so afraid to help other people because of what might happen?

"I'm not trained to deal with that." "That's been tried before and it didn't work because of x." Just excuses. Just show up and show that you care. The rest will work itself out. Being present and trying is what really matters.

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BlueVeins · 22-25

I'm like this a little bit unfortunately and it comes from a lack of confidence in myself. I feel that if I try to help someone, I will just weird them out and make it worse. I am trying to do better though. <3

SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M

@BlueVeins for real, there's that too!😞