Do most men on here dress in women's clothing?

@Paladin you can be canceled for blinking in the direction of people these days. I will take my chances though 🤣

@Torsten she sure is wasting a lot of breath for not wasting breath.

Masculine and feminity translate differently for each person. Thats like saying woman can mean something different for each person.

Then she tells you not to label her or put words in your mouth but proceeds in packaging and labeling your own personality and mindset.

She also claims not to understand men or masculinity but has a very vivid opinion on the matter.

On another note, if a man is sensitive especially on this topic that is his problem. If he is offended or hurt, that is his problem. Also that is not a masculine trait. No i dont typically care what people do but the crossdressers here are unusually outspoken and proud of their crossdressing posts so obviously they're not embarrassed or ashamed.

Now where Torsten and I differ, I honestly think its sad, that masculinity is dying out. I will never look at a feminine man the same way I do at a masculine man. I do not like feminine men, its weird and uncomfortable. You can comment on how "oh maybe you're just uncomfortable in your own sexuality blah blah blah" which is the common in response, but no. Overly feminine men is just plain weird

2022 everyone, if your opinion doesn't meet their agenda, you're wrong

@RebelFox well said

@Torsten Yep, I know 🙄

Learn needlework or find someone who can adjust regular clothes for unusual sizes. I've been doing my own for years so I don't have to rely upon the children's section 🙂

As for shoes, there is a British film called Kinky Boots which is all about the owner of an independent shoe manufacturer who was inspired to turn around his company's fortunes by the special requirements of a man with size 12 feet . .

@SunshineGirl I am too lazy for needlework haha.
My choice of clothes are not expensive, so I am good with buying them.

I have seen that movie, was pretty good

@Torsten why did you pick that...to explicitly talk about? I was using it as another random reference.. meh whatevs

@pride49 because i thought it was odd you mentioned it

@pride49
However, personality/mindset does affect testosterone & estrogen production, it's scientific/medical fact

@Keepitsimple cant disagree with you there

@Keepitsimple Ditto.

@Keepitsimple I get plenty of compliments from women when I am dressed fem.

@Carissimi I dont think anyone could put me off asking things I want but thank you. I agree with you very much

@Ontheroad
Cogito, ergo sum (I think, therefore I am)

Masculinity is biologically intrinsic. That's scientific/medical fact. Men who don't act like men lose masculine traits and experience testosterone deficiency

@wildbill83 I'm not going to get into a political or religious argument. Be a neanderthal, who cares.

@Ontheroad I said nothing about politics or religion. But people who turn every debate into one is a clear sign of insecurity... 🤔

@Repete I think clothes certainly can portray masculinity and femininity. I dont see a man in a dress and think masculine. I think attitude also can portray it.
A man wearing a dress is still a man of course and vice versa but that is different from being masculine or feminine

There’s been men in kilts for a very long time and I’m not sure if I would want to challenge their masculinity. A kilt is not a skirt or dress but to many looks about the same. Attitude sometimes you don’t see until you talk to the person.
The clothes may portray a person in a certain way because of how we were brought up but we put way to many labels on our preconceptions. Again that’s just my opinion.@Torsten

Agreed ,you have your free choice also. One thing and this is just my opinion but I think it’s more than kind to accept people as they are, it’s really respect. You may not agree with them , you may not even want to be around them but they are who they are just like you.@Casheyane

@Torsten It was the norm in America from the 16th century to the early 20th century.

Fun fact, there are pictures on the interwebs of FDR in a dress as a child.

@BohemianBabe well that does not surprise me about America in the slightest and maybe it is slowly becoming the "norm" there again

@Torsten Let's hope so. We need more femboys.

It was also common in parts of Europe. Seems like it was generally a western thing.

@TexChik fingernails?

sorry just re read toenails. My bad
ehh thats not overly bad, just wear socks all the time haha

@Magenta knowing masculine men does not mean masculinity is diminishing

@Torsten I know, that's what I'm saying.

But there are some things I won't accept and I don't have to, just because it's some new modern fad or some such.

@PhilDeep I will call you weird for that, especially on here 🤣

nah I am with you there mate

@PhilDeep 😄Thank God for that! ;-)

@JestAJester funny you mention the slur. Not many ever mention that. That is one thing I dislike about some gay men. I dont care that they are attracted to other men or anything like that but why on earth do they have to fake a lisp or slur? haha.
You can dress how you please just as you said but you cant control how society treats you and if you dress outside of the norm, you become so much a outcast. Which is fine but if you cant handle that, maybe rethink what you're doing.
Just my thoughts anyway

@Glassysky i wouldn't call dressing up in female clothes a mental illness but whatever

@Torsten Men in the West losing all masculinty to the point of being homos or trannies is indeed a mental illness mate. Its a shame our society, promotes this.

@Glassysky I somewhat agree about men losing masculinity to a point but you lost me with the homosexuality part considering you cant really push anyone into being that way

@SW-User have you been robbed it looks like someone has trashed your house

@SW-User looks like a damn tornado hit your place haha

@Torsten lol 😂

@BohemianBabe because you're not after it, it's established. I thought I was being charitable by saying you at least get something out of it. If you prefer we can just say your simping is for no reason though but that's just sad.

Abortion isn't a man or woman thing. Plenty of men like abortions, plenty of women hate them. Assuming it is, that's your mistake.

@Jackaloftheazuresand But women disproportionately support abortion.

Nobody has to simp to get laid. You think you do and that's how you explain being an incel.

@BohemianBabe and yet that has never determined anything

chahaha I never said that. You're the only one here concerned with sex my friend, it was obvious from the beginning that you are here to "defend wahmen" and one can't make an ideological statement on where power lies without you getting in a coil and calling people incels for it as if that's the only way someone could come to this conclusion.

@Stargazer89

@UnderLockDown never say never 🤣

@Torsten 😆Never, never, never.

@CrazyMusicLover so weird we have different feeds because mine is flooded with them haha.

I agree with you that clothes alone does not make someone more masculine or feminine but it certainly can portray it

@Thevy29 sounds like a site to see for sure. Congrats on first prize

@wildbill83 what is hairies?

@Torsten bulgarians and other people with unibrows? 🤔

@CopperCicada I am surprised you have not seen any. My timeline is flooded with it haha

@CopperCicada Online you will know if they tell you or show you, otherwise no. But it's much the same in real life, you will only know if you see them dressed fem. Most cross-dressers are not effeminate, though some wish they were more feminine, and most are straight.

@MasterLee if it was just one or two, I would never have wrote this thread

@Punxi nothing wrong with saggy boxers haha

@ElwoodBlues Witch!!! Burn him!!!

@Justenjoyit you have not noticed it?

@Torsten I just post and have a laugh I dont really look around much on here.

@Justenjoyit prob the best way to go

@iamonfire696 a fair take to have indeed :)

@Torsten thanks. I am pretty okay with letting people do as they like as long as it’s not illegal and doesn’t hurt anyone.