So you have been friends with a person for 3 months.

You happen to have a SW member be kind of rude with you on your post. You block that person then tell your friend what happened. Your friend then goes nuts and starts threatening you saying he will go down on you like a ton of bricks. You never knew your friend was very close to this person in the first place . So I tried to avoid drama by apologizing. The apology didn’t work because he was still bitter and ignored me. I think a true friend would give you a second chance and not threaten you with vile messages. It was a despicable act. I’ve had some really vile people attack me in the past in here unfortunately. I have been emotionally abused by many people on this site in the past and it wasn’t fair at all. I’m just a human being like everyone else. I’m not made out of stone. I cry tears not rocks.
UPDATE: He was bitter because I didn’t show him my pictures or give him what he wanted. He couldn’t use the older and wiser gal like he could use younger maybe.

Vivaci

Very sorry you experienced this...its sadly very common here. Esp. when you’re new and trust friends on their face value. I’ve faced this situation a couple of times myself.

Don’t let these bad experiences define your worth. Ignore people who make you feel bad. Block them if it helps. And you don’t need to explain yourself to anyone.

Remember...

[b][i]Those who mind, don’t matter...and those who matter, don’t mind. [/i][/b]

SW-User

Thanks for your thoughtful reply. I hate when they make you feel like a villain without even giving you a chance to explain yourself. People should treat friends equally. I didn’t even do anything cruel to his friend. I just blocked her because she was acting senseless and rude. I do not like drama so if I encounter someone that I don’t get along with; I block before things can become ugly. He made a big deal over a small issue and his threats were jaw dropping. You would think he would have been kinder to me since I was his friend but he acted like I was his biggest enemy. Oh well, I’m done with him and others like him and he lost my friendship and enjoyed friending the young damsels in distress here. 😅🙄@Vivaci

kodiac · 22-25, M

I hate when people just go off like that out of the blue. You're not expecting it and it hits like a physical slap.