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Pretzel · 61-69, M
two rules
1) we like nudes
2) when in doubt - refer to rule #1

sorry you had that experience. - no I don't want you nudes - I can find all I want on the fetish sites when I'm in THAT mood.
SW-User
@Pretzel and what site would that be?
SW-User
Yeah, annoying AF @WonderGirl1
losthorizons · 51-55, M
@WonderGirl1 not me wonder
SW-User
@WonderGirl1 that’s not altogether fair!
losthorizons · 51-55, M
He’s probably cat fishing you be careful
SledgeHammer · 46-50, M
Well that's no good!
Someone giving their personal information just after a few days? That's a red flag
SW-User
Not exactly that way but when I tried to be his friend he acted cold because I’m secretive and he doesn’t like that. We argued a bit then he accused me of being a different SW member then blocked. @WonderGirl1
@SW-User He sounds paraniod.
SW-User
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SW-User
Exactly, they get pissy and act cold. @RebelFox
Jeremi · 41-45, M
point that bastard out. now!

Jeremi · 41-45, M
@SW-User
I take it kinda personal when it happens to good people like you.
SW-User
Awe thank you 😊 @Jeremi
Jeremi · 41-45, M
@SW-User
of course
CestManan · 46-50, F
It was a Catfish. They are very quick to try to get one's personal info.

The reason catfish block those who are not falling for their BS is so they do not contact the same potential victims again.

When someone blocks you, they are doing you a favor.
SW-User
@CestManan If he gets my info he can definitely make my life hell.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
You can't lump all guys together. You know this.
You don't need to feel bad about what happened.
Screw that loser. Laugh and move on.
If you want to know a secret .... Clowns are the most honest users here.
Just sayin'
Jeremi · 41-45, M
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@Jeremi Are we talking about the same site???
You are only as weak as you let someone make you.
Jeremi · 41-45, M
@Dainbramadge
this is definitely true
EuphoricTurtle · 41-45, M
I think the silver lining is that he pulled that crap on you after only a few days, that way you didn't end up wasting so much time on that carpet stain. Still sucks to have to go through that nevertheless, especially since you had previously discussed that.
SW-User
You’re right, I’m lucky he showed his true self from the beginning. @EuphoricTurtle
leeloh · F
That's immature af and a major red flag. Let's not forget he can always give you fake fb/instagram profiles.

You should [b]NEVER [/b]do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and feel guilty about when rejecting .

He's trying to manipulate you, and good you didn't fall for that.

A good person with good intentions, friend or whatever, will never rush you into anything, especially if you already clearly communicated that you're not comfortable.
SW-User
Exactly, he was persistent from the beginning. I mean just because I told him that I saw his Facebook he flipped! He’s the one that gave me the information and then he starts insulting me. He actually pretended to be nice but that was short lived. @leeloh
leeloh · F
@SW-User yeah, manipulator.
SW-User
🤦🏻‍♀️@leeloh
NewRaven · 51-55, F
I had someone on here (that I “knew” all of 1 day) tell me that I was too secretive because I wouldn’t tell him my daughter’s name. Said that made me look suspicious and fake and that he wasn’t going to talk to me, so he blocked me. I figured good riddance, leave my kids out of this perv.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@NewRaven I had a guy ask me for my phone number 10 minutes in. Like WTF no!!!
NewRaven · 51-55, F
@iamonfire696 wow. That seems too fast to me.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@NewRaven exactly and I am not giving out personal info like that
MEGATRON · 22-25, M
I'LL FIND HIM AND PUNISH HIM.
That sounds suspicious I would not give out my information to this person
@SW-User yea it seems they was trying to manipulate you into giving them your information
SW-User
He was by telling me that he cares for me knowing my online self for a week. 😄😅@ExperienceDLT
@SW-User that is just a manipulation tactic don't let him fool you
WanderingThrough · 31-35, F
Unfortunately this kind of behaviour is so common here. People offer their personal information / photos and expect you to do the same. That’s not how it works. You’re entitled to your anonymity, please never forget that. I think it’s really wonderful when someone can meet people here who they are comfortable with sharing that information with, but that doesn’t always happen and usually not so fast.

You did the right thing. I’m sorry you encountered this person.
WanderingThrough · 31-35, F
@SW-User Absolutely! You never truly know. That can happen with anyone though.
SW-User
It has happened to me. I was friends with a man my fathers age and he seemed trustworthy and kind. After a year he got mad at me for saying I won’t date a man his age so he took my profile pic of me in sunglasses and posted it on his profile. I had to report him. @WanderingThrough
WanderingThrough · 31-35, F
@SW-User Wow, I’m sorry that happened. ❤️ I hope you have enough positivity here to keep you from being discouraged.
Mktonght · 61-69, M
Very intelligent response, he obviously had some ulterior motives.
Yes trust and then verify and be patient, I have a number of female friends that I have met and developed "friendships" with, however it was actually months of chatting before we shared phone numbers etc and that was for a bible study we did together each day.
SW-User
His motives were really confusing because we only knew each other for a week. @Mktonght
Talk to gay men or women
SW-User
I like gay men, they never are mean with me. @DarlingSelah
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Dont give these people your information and don’t accept their sm accounts and phone numbers. Lots of them are psychopaths

Have your rl friends introduce you to a good guy
SW-User
I never want to give anyone on this site information about me. I wouldn’t ever feel comfortable. These men have issues that’s why they’re lonely and looking for women online . @Jenny1234
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SW-User
I don’t like to be mistreated. He can be nice to others but mean to me, that’s not right. @nightjourney He may be nice to you and others but he wasn’t nice to me at all.
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SW-User
Never 😳@nightjourney
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I think that guy has been in my inbox too. He is throwing red flags left and right. I understand because I come across a lot of men like this here.
SW-User
There’s too many like that on here. @iamonfire696
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User way too many. I am sorry you have had to deal with this.
SW-User
Thanks, I’m sick of being treated like this by many men online. It’s never ending. @iamonfire696
Run forrest run. get away for the jerk and block him forever.
SW-User
Exactly @Spracer
GovanDUNNY · 36-40, M
I never ask for personal info this isnt a dating site CD
SW-User
Exactly !!! @GovanDUNNY
Adamski24 · 41-45, M
I'm the same I never give out my private information.
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CakeByTheOcean · 26-30, F
Most men in the real world are not like this thankfully.

In fact most people online easily become bullies.

 
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