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Are you nice to people even if you don’t like them?

poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
i try to be, you never know when some people need kindness
SW-User
Yes I see no reason to change myself for them. I just don't go out of my way to talk to them or associate
Rarely it happens that I dont like someone, but if I do, I still stay respectful to them...
SW-User
If they're nice to me
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@SW-User But you don’t like them
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Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@SW-User Yes.
SW-User
Yeah. Polite. Or avoid them.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@SW-User Yeah avoiding is good
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I am respectful whenever possible.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@ImRileyTheDog That is why I said whenever possible. 😐
SW-User
@ImRileyTheDog [c=004A59]I agree that a lot of people don't deserve my respect, especially when they've been disrespectful to me first. On the other hand, I don't want to contribute to the chaos and drama. I'd rather not be part of the problem. 😬[/c]
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Italian girls let you know if we don't like you
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@saragoodtimes Italian Joisey girls tell you before they meet you. 🤭
@Degbeme first impressions go a long way
JustNik · 51-55, F
Courteous. I doubt I’ve ever given the impression I liked someone when I didn’t, but I see no reason to be a jerk about it.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@JustNik *happily suffocates* 😘🤗🥰❤🌹
JustNik · 51-55, F
@Degbeme LOLOLOL Love you Degs! Have a nice vacation??
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@JustNik Love you too Nik. I did have a nice time thanks. Nice to be back home though. ☺️
BananaBrown · 41-45, F
As long as they aren’t confrontational, I’ll be courteous. I won’t be a doormat.
sassypants · 36-40, F
I'm nice to everyone. Saying hi doesn't mean you have to chitchat or anything.
Notanymore · 36-40, M
Of course. My personal ideology is no reason to not use manners. If someone is doing something, or saying something that should be stopped. maybe I won't be so nice. But if they're just annoying or something, i have no right to be a jerk
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@Notanymore Depends on if they directly affect you too probably
Notanymore · 36-40, M
@ImRileyTheDog it should depend on that, but I'm a bit hair triggered if someone is being a jerk to someone else as well. Especially if i feel it's a one-sided thing.
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
I used to be a real jerk when I was a kid, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve became nicer 🤗🤗 I like making new friends 😊
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@TurtlePink I’m a meanie😂
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
@ImRileyTheDog as you should, queen 😌💅🏿
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@TurtlePink 😂😂😂
SW-User
No. I avoid them
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@SW-User Exactly
AdaXI · 41-45, T
Absolutely.
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PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
Of course. Even though I may not like someone, I’m not going to be rude to them because that’ll just make me not like myself as well. I will however limit my time with them. No sense in testing my niceness.
SW-User
[c=004A59]Online, I try to keep it polite and stay out of the drama. SW tries my patience many times a day. Offline, if I don't like people, I don't associate with them.[/c]
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@SW-User People in the real world kinda suck
Spica · 31-35, F
No. I'm nice if the person is nice or neutral.
Rude people awaken the b*tchy side of me.
Straylight · 31-35, F
As long as they’re polite, I’m polite.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
I try to be nice. When they can't then I won't be nice.
4meAndyou · F
I USED to be nice to everyone. I've noticed that when one of my neighbors makes rude comments I have become a bit less polite. Now I will say, "Haw, haw, HAW!", in a tone dripping with sarcasm. She looked shocked...🤣.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@4meAndyou Haha they don’t like the sarcasm😂
4meAndyou · F
@ImRileyTheDog No, she did not like the sarcasm. So last time she made a comment I joked about it instead, BEFORE she could open her ugly mouth...and everyone laughed.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
I always try to be
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Usually. Depends on how much I don't like them and for what.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@ImRileyTheDog Hahaha you see me on here, not in my day job. I have actual enemies.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@CountScrofula I bet at work everyone is threatened by your awesomeness
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@ImRileyTheDog Well that's the plan at least. I run a union and so the bosses don't like me very much lol
If I have to interact with them, yes. I'll be nice, but also remain superficial and won't initiate contact. But then again, I hardly ever do that with people I do like either, so... 😅
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Yeah,that's a problem I need to work on for the most part. I usually just never not like someone. It's always them that don't like me for some odd reason so then I'm forced not to like them back.
Outsider98 · 36-40, M
Yes, I feel forced to be nice to people. Unfortunately I live in a social society that feels the need for constant communication. I just really enjoy my solitude.
SW-User
Sure. I am nice to people no matter what I think of them, unless they are rude and hostile to me, in which case I will respond proportionately.
acpguy · C
I try to be respectful, nice is different. And if they are total asses or perverts then I am not nice at all.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I try to stay neutral.
Besides, liking or disliking someone is rather volatile for me anyway.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
No. I cant pretend.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@ImRileyTheDog I do puppy dog. Just not with the bully at work or the narcissist. Theres just no way I can.They both know it also. Too bad for them.They arent nice people at all. For the most part.I get along with many people.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@ImRileyTheDog Dont be mad I call you puppy dog. I respect you so much. You are a puppy dog! Lol!🤗
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@Eddiesolds 🤗❤️
Lilymoon · F
I'm nice until they aren't nice to me. Then all bets are off
I have to be... one is my boss what a dickhead!!!
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@GBPackersFan Sounds like most jobs
Markmywurdz · 56-60, M
I’m polite to them, which is not quite the same thing.
iamelijah · 26-30, M
Avoid as possible but if confront, act like neutral.
Evened · 51-55, M
Depends on the situation and how much they annoy me.
Yes, but a doormat I am not.
Depends how much i don't like them
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
Only at work.
wackidywack · 22-25
Starchild1983 · 41-45, F
I’m civil
Bubbles · 36-40, F
SW-User
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
I try to avoid being mean to anyone.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@ViciDraco Avoidance has always worked best for me and they usually get the message that I don’t care for you
Hasmita · M
Has been known🙂
Bang5luts · M
Yes 😒 I feel it necessary to be even nicer to those I like the least. The only way to tell if I truly dislike you us if I'm really nice to you.😐😑😐🤔
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
I'm polite, typically, unless the person is a massive haemorrhoid. But I'm not nice, if I don't like someone I make it plain.

 
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