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I Was Blocked And I Do Not Even Know Why

(after series of boring chitchats) I asked him what is he looking for in SW?
He said Passion, that is what he's looking for.
Though I'm not into random intimate chats, I hate chittychats, and I feel like I'm babysitting... so
(I answered him that) If you're looking for passion from me, sorry to say because I don't have any.
And to that he said " oh, sorry I wasted your time."

But in fairness I called it chitchats, I'm not a snob. And felt that I'm not growing or not getting any from small talks. And because I sensed that he's not really into open conversations, like telling me things about himself, when I am so open with my profile. He answers or replies in with a word or just a sentence.
I thought I'm getting tired of this chittychats, and I feel like I'm babysitting... so I went straight up to say in a way that I'm NOT LOOKING for a hook up or online affair. (but then I fairly believe with the magic spark the chemistry)

I wanted to let him know that me as a woman, knows how we want to be approached, while starting to find connection. I was hoping I could share to him what most women would love to be a part with.
I was telling this guy that "if he's looking for passion he should show passion to the person he wants to know passion from. That he should show real interest to knowing that person."
He seems content with sending short messages. And I'm not about to babysit someone on PMs. Thank god though, he's not into text messaging, pervert streaks, like asking what color of undies are you wearing right now... so on and so forth.
And so I ended up saying...
Good luck to finding your passion

I must have said too much... because he replied
(he replied saying) What was that all about?
I was about to reply but found out I can't, I was blocked.

I think and am sure I can be a better friend instead of thinking other than what you want me to be.
SW-User
Oh, don't be apologetic for who and what you are. I for one, my pet peeve are the one liner messages in the inbox. A turn off, is chat. [b]I don't like being bothered while I am reading or responding to posts.[/b]My friends leave their messages, and I get back to them at a later time.

I've been here for quite a time, and I have only 5 male and 1 female friends. Moreso, it's no big deal that I can unfriend anyone whom I haven't interacted. It's better that we cross paths in some other ways, rather than maintaining names I have yet to interact with after the first hello. Every month, I clean my friend circle.

Chatting is a waste of time. It is through action that I discern whether a user is for keeps or not. It's how I make friends, through their actions, not by chatting. I have friends that are not in my friend list, but they are even better friends than those included in my friend list. And it's sad, really.馃槍
Nonamefornow51-55, F
I can relate to that. There are much more action outside PMs. 馃槀 But not saying PMs are to be ignored either.
SW-User
He was definitely a manchild.. and you definitely against babysitting according to your post馃槀
Nonamefornow51-55, F
I know right! 馃槀

I wanted to know why he was separated. But never mind.馃構
SW-User
@Anticure: be careful next time,that's mixed signal territory 馃槼
Nonamefornow51-55, F
@Traubi: yep, truly is. Just that he aimed at me, who gets bored with a man of few words (not saying Im into the slappy walky talky kind of guy) 馃槀
darknight00731-35, M
I used to have very deep conversations with a friend online. She was a great deep person... Hint :she lives in a Asian country often associated with earthquakes. Lol
Nonamefornow51-55, F
Aha-
Well said. You got your point across. Thanks for sharing.
@Anticure: Hey I agree with you. I don't care for chitchat either. I do enjoy depth in a good conversation. Good luck.
Nonamefornow51-55, F
Yeah, you said it right " the depth " ! Lol
@Anticure: Of course. Depth is important for people like ourselves. Conversations have to have that to have some meaning.馃槈
Cinnamon31-35, F
It sounds like you were kind, and clear. Don't worry about being blocked by someone who couldn't handle that.
Nonamefornow51-55, F
That's so sweet of you. Thanks for commenting in.
Fungirlmmm51-55, F
Ive had that happen a few times here.
Nonamefornow51-55, F
I wish they can be more open with friendships and not thinking about hooking up at once. Well I know most men don't do that.
berangere80-89, F
Some people are in love with the block button!


 
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