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should i forget this woman and see it as a lost cause

i was messaging a woman on facebook for years, and it was going well...i thought it could of lead to something like a relationship , but in all that time i was messaging her, this woman never saw a current picture of me, i recently uploaded a picture to my facebook of myself when i was young on holiday and this woman i was interacting with, commented on the picture ' post a picture of you now'...so i private messaged her and sent her a present photo of myself now....and since then i haven't heard from her in days? she did say she was having her knee seen to by a doctor, so i'm not sure if i haven't heard from her because of that.....but something in the back of my mind is telling me, my photo put her off...that i wasn't her type and it wasn't how she imagined me to be? and it has been a deal breaker.....so now i won't hear from her again.


the question i have is should i message her again to ask her why she hasn't responded or just leave it and move on?

i did start to like this woman a lot, so i feel let down and rejected as well....but i do have a tendency to behave 'clingy' too, because i live alone and get lonely at times.
easterniowegin · 51-55, M Best Comment
A) don't come across as needy when you do contact. Keep light and possibly even slightly self-deprecating.
B) it is possible that she was waiting to see how you followed it up...as a way of letting you lead the interaction.

If she hasn't blocked you outright, you're probably ok. Make light contact.
Jungleman · M
@easterniowegin thanks for your advice, appreciated.

mayzap · 41-45, F
How many times have you messaged her without a response?

 
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