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I don't even know what to think of all this. It's been a long time since I posted here on similar worlds (experience project back then) but i really need to vent. My emotions are all out of place and that's mainly because of relationships or lack...

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twiigss · M

After reading your post, I can't see any reason why your guy friend wouldn't write you back. I've been in positions where I met a girl, told her a bit about my past, being with my ex, and she said something like, "you need to have more confidence and not talk about your ex gf all the time." "It sounds like you still love her"

And at that time, it'd been maybe a year since we'd broken up after being together for 4 years, and yea it was a tough time for me.

Now if your guy friend only saw you as gf and nothing else, then maybe he's not a true friend?

But don't feel dumb about it. You did what you felt was right, and that's a good thing. You gotta do what you gotta do, and you can't let others run your life.

I hope everything works out well for you 🙂

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twiigss · M

@5amsunrise I've had encounters since then but ultimately I'm still single. Not sure how I've managed to do it but it's whatever.

5amsunrise · 31-35, F

@twiigss oh, i see. Best of luck to the both of us then. 😅
Toast to enjoying the single life and should the universe throw love our way, hopefully, it's an everlasting love....cause these unrequited crushes ain't fun...at least for me 😅

twiigss · M

@5amsunrise yea it'd be nice to have someone. Maybe it'll come at some point

HootyTheNightOwl

Stop thinking about it so much... Learn what you can from the experience and dump the rest into the trash can.

5amsunrise · 31-35, F

@HootyTheNightOwl thanks, I'll try to do that. I think i just need to find time to relax and sort my thoughts out like ask myself "what did i learn" as you mentioned

HootyTheNightOwl

@5amsunrise That's the thing with many of us, we carry around so much that doesn't serve us because "we may need it one day". Most of what we carry is empty chip bags and soda bottles in the grand scheme of things.

In throwing those out and keeping hold of the good stuff, we can then look at what we learned and how we can approach this differently next time.

5amsunrise · 31-35, F

@HootyTheNightOwl thanks for sharing your nuggets of wisdom. I'll try to put it into practice for the sake of my sanity. 🙏

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

Don't over think. You are young and wait for the right guy.

5amsunrise · 31-35, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife thank you 🙏

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