its been a month. no dates or anything
besides my sims bf and he doesn’t count. Im getting lonely though. Thinking about a bf. Gonna knock some things off of my to-do list instead though
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GhangisKhan · 26-30, M
One month? Those are rookie stats. Try like 5-6 years of no affection of any kind, not even as much as flirting.
Ohbabe · 22-25, F
@GhangisKhan 🫡 the goal is a year
GhangisKhan · 26-30, M
@Ohbabe It shouldn't be a goal. It's not a competition but to be honest, you wouldn't get it. Women do not understand male loneliness. A woman's loneliness is like a few days without getting attention or in your case 1 month without being in a relationship. Male loneliness is possibly going thru life without getting any kind of attention, affection, sex, or relationship for years or maybe their entire natural lives in a lot of cases. A lot of men die virgins. It's not something you could possibly fathom so you'll probably argue my point or claim I'm some kind of "mYsOgYnIST" but this is just the reality for a lot of men today. So whenever I see a woman complaining about being "lonely" for a week, a month, all I can do is shake my head. I haven't had a woman even acknowledge my mere presence in like 6 years, much less show interest in wanting to date me.
Ohbabe · 22-25, F
@GhangisKhan Im gonna be honest with you. My initial interpretation of your comment was you wanted a loneliness olympics but I didn’t take it there. I just know I have a desire to be able to be alone without dates or sexual intimacy. Nowhere do you see a complaint here. I absolutely could date if I wanted to but I don’t. You seem to want to talk about your lonely experience here in the comments but im not interested in doing that here. you can pm me so its more private but im happy with what i’m doing and it is a goal to do it for as long as I can 🤍
GhangisKhan · 26-30, M
@Ohbabe It's not about "lOnLinEsSS oLyMpICs." I'm just speaking facts. Why would I want to talk to someone who can't fathom what I'm going thru? You literally just admitted that you can't by saying you could date whenever you want but choose not to. You are complaining. You said "I'm getting lonely". That is complaining believe it or not. I don't care to talk about my loneliness with people who can't comprehend it, and most women can't and these are just the facts. I'm not going to pm you, sorry. "
"I just know I have a desire to be able to be alone without dates or sexual intimacy. "
That statement made absolutely zero sense. Have a good day
"I just know I have a desire to be able to be alone without dates or sexual intimacy. "
That statement made absolutely zero sense. Have a good day
Ohbabe · 22-25, F
@GhangisKhan you can tell me about how you feel whenever you’d like