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bwcdadddy · 46-50, M
I got divorced from my ex wife. Because she didn't give a crap about the son we had together. And didn't give him any help, knowing he had something wrong with him. And she's a very toxic person and a narcissist.
496sbc · 36-40, M
No i do not enjoy being single.
Dshhh · M
single by choice. maybe someday? but I like my freedom
SW-User
Single due to difficulty with dating
SW-User
Single by choice
Been hurt
Never again
Can't trust
You learn how to handle loneliness
Been hurt
Never again
Can't trust
You learn how to handle loneliness
Fairydust · F
I’m single by choice, my degree nisi ends this Tuesday and then I can get my absolute. Freeeeeee lol
Then maybe think about dating again. I ended my marriage in 2019, I have dated, maybe it’s time to.
Then maybe think about dating again. I ended my marriage in 2019, I have dated, maybe it’s time to.
ShadowWolf · 31-35, M
I would say it's both single by choice and not by choice. Last month I broke up with my girlfriend. So by choice I am now single. But if I had it my way, with the right person, I'd already be married. I would say that reason I'm single, is because very few women are LTR material, nevermind marriage material.
I am single by choice. I love my life style.I live alone in my own home and work out of it also.
This way I can chose my friends, when I want to work and how I want to dress..
I reality do have a goodlife. 🥰
This way I can chose my friends, when I want to work and how I want to dress..
I reality do have a goodlife. 🥰
Jeffrey53 · 51-55, M
Other reasons
Justafantasy · M
Not single. If I was I wouldn't be waiting to meet anyone, just doing my own things
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
No one's hit on me. That's why I'm single.
I'm just an average guy with an average life that no one gives a damn about.
I'm fine with being single, honestly, even though it gets boring, it's better than the constant stress of being in a sh!tty relationship
I'm just an average guy with an average life that no one gives a damn about.
I'm fine with being single, honestly, even though it gets boring, it's better than the constant stress of being in a sh!tty relationship
Josh1454 · M
Choice.
violentred · 26-30, M
I'd love to be with someone but I'm too afraid to approach anyone and in my head I don't think anyone likes me.
MichaelT · 36-40, M
To be honest its both
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
By choice. I have other things that I need to take care of first before I should even consider dating.
NerdyPotato · M
I'm single by choice. Not my choice though. 😅
RebelFox · 36-40, F
I am single but I really should be for the time being. My last bf killed himself and I’ve been sleeping around to feel connected. But truly I need time to myself more than anything right now. And I’m great with that.
swirlie · 31-35, F
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Thanks for the cursory push of your 'heart' button Kara, but what's your opinion of being single?[/c]
Thanks for the cursory push of your 'heart' button Kara, but what's your opinion of being single?[/c]
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DeathAndDespair · 31-35, F
@swirlie I’ve heard about manifestation but I only know of it on a surface level. I’m not familiar with the detailed description of manifestation but I do believe it involves that whatever vibe/energy you exert outwards will naturally pull your desired person to you gradually.
swirlie · 31-35, F
@DeathAndDespair
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That is correct. Your lot in life didn't just happen to you. You actually brought it to yourself, both the good stuff and the bad stuff sadly to say.
If you are single and you cannot find Mister Right, it's actually because you have put out a message in the form of a vibe or an energy that you DO NOT want him to show up! This is not normally a conscious decision we make when we self-sabotage our intent, but it IS done by us and us alone nonetheless.
That being the case, you can turn the tables and manifest way too many people into your life as well if you're not careful! [/c]
[c=008099]
That is correct. Your lot in life didn't just happen to you. You actually brought it to yourself, both the good stuff and the bad stuff sadly to say.
If you are single and you cannot find Mister Right, it's actually because you have put out a message in the form of a vibe or an energy that you DO NOT want him to show up! This is not normally a conscious decision we make when we self-sabotage our intent, but it IS done by us and us alone nonetheless.
That being the case, you can turn the tables and manifest way too many people into your life as well if you're not careful! [/c]
swirlie · 31-35, F
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Single by choice. The reason being, I don't believe in the institution of marriage. Not a religious hangup because I'm not a religious person anyway, just a very unnecessary idea in this day and age considering that the concept of marriage was born during the inception of Christianity by the Catholic church to either stop or prevent the spread of venereal disease among the uneducated masses at the time.
Do I enjoy being single? Yes, absolutely. The way I look at it, every guy I meet is a 'special someone' within his own Right. I also know that one guy can never fulfill the needs of a woman, her emotional needs or otherwise, which then begs the question of why do we women delude ourselves into thinking that some special, magical guy out there can fill the shoes of 6 different men, all of whom have something different she needs in her life which of course is constantly changing? [/c]
Single by choice. The reason being, I don't believe in the institution of marriage. Not a religious hangup because I'm not a religious person anyway, just a very unnecessary idea in this day and age considering that the concept of marriage was born during the inception of Christianity by the Catholic church to either stop or prevent the spread of venereal disease among the uneducated masses at the time.
Do I enjoy being single? Yes, absolutely. The way I look at it, every guy I meet is a 'special someone' within his own Right. I also know that one guy can never fulfill the needs of a woman, her emotional needs or otherwise, which then begs the question of why do we women delude ourselves into thinking that some special, magical guy out there can fill the shoes of 6 different men, all of whom have something different she needs in her life which of course is constantly changing? [/c]
Torsten · 36-40, M
single by choice. being a single parent, I never wanted people coming in and out of my sons life that he could get attached too and get hurt when or if the relationships dont work out. Plus hear all sorts of horror stories of things like parents partners around children. so yeah screw that, when my son is a old enough where I feel he is good, I might look to be in a relationship again.
I enjoy being single though. I like my freedom and my own company. Relationships can just seem to weigh you down and I dont really like that
I enjoy being single though. I like my freedom and my own company. Relationships can just seem to weigh you down and I dont really like that
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Not really by choice
I’m trying to enjoy being single but my last serious relationship ended in December and I’m starting to get lonely
I didn’t want to jump right back into another relationship to let me enjoy being single but also wasn’t going to fight if something came up
There’s been a few short kind of start and quickly stop things I’ve had but nothing that ended up being as serious as I was hoping for
And I’m not really doing anything specific in the meantime, just living life and hoping something comes along
But if it doesn’t I’m in no rush
I’m trying to enjoy being single but my last serious relationship ended in December and I’m starting to get lonely
I didn’t want to jump right back into another relationship to let me enjoy being single but also wasn’t going to fight if something came up
There’s been a few short kind of start and quickly stop things I’ve had but nothing that ended up being as serious as I was hoping for
And I’m not really doing anything specific in the meantime, just living life and hoping something comes along
But if it doesn’t I’m in no rush