The Holiday - 2006 Movie

Can anyone else relate to Kate Winslet's character as Iris Simpkins in that movie?

I've been in that position before when you're in love with a person who loves someone else.

I'm a plus size but I can so relate to this dialogue from the movie :
I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible. And how it can actually ache in places you didn't know you had inside you.😢