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If i was thin and beautiful maybe then id finally have someone.

Remember.... God says you are something. The Bible says you are God's crown creation and that makes you very special. He does have good plans for you. Maybe you could meet somebody in church, as well as get some good spiritual guidance. The Holy Spirit always brings joy, comfort, peace, and great guidance.
And you'll meet some very sweet friends who will accept you as you are. I know I complain, but in my heart, I know that God could still send someone for me. I believe that with all my heart, but at the same time, I see a few reasons why I'm not with someone right now, as I have chosen to dedicate my life in other areas and am purely happy and satisfied with that. If I meet someone along the way, that would be good and I could accept that, but right now I have many things I want to do for the Lord. Nothing is impossible with the Lord.

I have had a couple companions in the past. They just didn't work out for me. Not what I was looking for. They were controlling. So it's not impossible, friend. Keep believing and tell the Lord what you're looking for and leave the rest to Him. You are young and I truly believe that God will send someone for you. I'll keep you in my prayers.
I hope I have not discouraged you with my comments. They were only made to defend the comments about your attitude. I want you to keep trying and never give up. Just because I didn't find someone, doesn't mean that you won't and you're still very young, so you must keep trying. I know that's hard, and genuine people are hard to find, but it's not impossible, so I want you to never give up. I would advise you not to stay to yourself, but get out there and enjoy life and you never know, just when you think there is no one, I truly believe someone could show up for you and accept you for who you are.
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@LadyGrace no you didn't. It's just refreshing to see that someone else understands
@IAmNothing Oh, thank God! I was worried.
Randie · 61-69, T
You are a person. There is someone out there for you. The way you feel about yourself is what you project. Please start feeling better about yourself. The only opinion that matters is yours! If you believe this you will find yourself and others will find you.
@Randie Wow. That is really something. What a great person. Very rare, indeed. I'm so sorry you're sick. I really hate that. Would you mind if I keep you in my daily prayers?
Randie · 61-69, T
@LadyGrace No problem, I appreciate that. I don't feel sorry for myself as I did alot stupid things when was younger and did not take care of myself. We pay for those things when we get older.
@Randie Hugs. We sure do.
BlueVeins · 22-25
🍻 to dying alone, comrade
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@BlueVeins pretty much what's going to happen to me
BlueVeins · 22-25
@IAmNothing we can die alone together 🤗
@Notanymore Your kindness and words have brought tears to my eyes as that is the sweetest thing to say to me. My love and heartfelt thanks to you, my precious friend.
Notanymore · 36-40, M
@LadyGrace keep faith in yourself
@Notanymore Honey, I've never stopped. I sometimes get down about it, but I never give up on anything in life really. I don't believe in quitting. I just don't look anymore. If God wants me to have someone I'm sure he'll send someone. If not, I still believe life is lovely and a precious gift and beautiful and not to be wasted on anything, especially regrets. I don't sit and think about it. God bless you abundantly.
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
There is someone out there for everyone! Being thin, big, average etc, it doesn't define who you are. I've learned that people will treat you the same way you treat yourself. Now a days if I'm being honest men like a little more to hold onto. Stop thinking poorly of yourself. You will find someone when the time is right. The most important love we can have is for ourselves. Treat yourself like you deserve it , don't talk down on yourself. A pretty face or body won't get you into Heaven nor will it find you the man/woman of your dreams. If someone can't love you as is, then they're not for you. You can always lose weight, but you can always gain it back too.. then what... we change everyday.... so anyone only with someone because of how they look, it won't lasts. We're human. It's the same thing with farting, burping etc... it's a human thing..
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butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
@LadyGrace Oh I know that not everyone thinks that way and that a lot of people in society operate that way, but I'm saying just focusing on herself, she shouldn't allow that to define her just because others might. Trust me, I know what's it like to be judged by something that's out of my control. Not weight, but I do have other flaws... people are cruel. But my point is that I made it a habit not to care what people think anymore. It takes time to get to that point and I still have my off days where it'll bother me, but most of the time I'm quite okay. I've had people tell me because of an issue I have had.. well, not tell me, but talk about it with other people that I'd never get a boyfriend... have had 3... I've had people think I'm slow.. I've had people think I'd never be on my own... I've even gotten turned down for certain jobs... but at some point you can't allow that to slow you down. Give yourself a chance if nobody else is going to and see what you start to manifest. While my issue wasn't weight it' still a physical problem I have had since birth and will always have it. Since I can't change it, I have to make the best of it.
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Then you would worry that someone thinner and more beautiful could come along and take that someone away. Until you can love yourself for who you are completely, you will never truly be accepting of someone else loving you.
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@Pinkstarburst That's always a concern no matter how you look though
@IAmNothing Self-confidence trumps concerns and fear.
brian29715 · 46-50, M
@Pinkstarburst best answer. Self-confidence is sexy, powerful, impressive, beautiful, the list goes on.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Whether you are or not everyone deserves kindness.
Why would someone plain not deserve love?
Why would that disqualify?
Unless it's a shallow unlasting love.
@Justmeraeagain You got it. Shallow is the word alright. People accept you as long as you do as they say and I'm not about to be manipulated and controlled. If someone loves me they are going to have to love me for who I am. I love myself too much to change to other's standards to fit in.
@Justmeraeagain Yes, everyone deserves love.
Thin and (physically) beautiful, are just conditions.
When you find someone who loves you UNconditionally, your appearance won't matter.
Nanori · F
I'm thin and cute and I've only been exploited
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@Nanori I'd rather be exploited than ignored and looked down on
Nanori · F
@IAmNothing at least you aren't emotionally invested in someone
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@Nanori hard to do that when everyone ignores you
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
you could still be only beautiful. Depends on the man. 🤷‍♂️
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@scooogy men don't want types like me.
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
@IAmNothing would you mind sharing a picture of you?
I’ve dealt with anorexia since I was 11. I’m not happier skinny than I am fat tbh
NotNowJoanna · 56-60, F
If you didn’t think that you could have someone…think of that.
Self confidence is sexy…
DestroyerOfIdeologies · 22-25, M
:( Do you have any qualities you like about yourself? Then can you try losing some weight then?
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@DestroyerOfIdeologies I'm trying to lose weight but it's not working
DestroyerOfIdeologies · 22-25, M
@IAmNothing I guess you can only keep trying, and try different diets and exercises till it gives you some success. I use to do lot of push ups, over 300 each day though I'd break them into sets. I like how it made me strong but I was gaining some weight and not fitting into my clothes and I cant afford new clothes. I still do push ups but not as much and did stretch kicks again (sort of like free form martial arts, I don't do those stances though, I don't like em), which I did when I was much younger and skinnier. I also walk and run sometimes. So now I'm skinny again. But try what works for you.
SW-User
I wonder why it is then that I see so many overweight and homely women with partners...
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@SW-User they settled or are with fetish creeps
SW-User
@IAmNothing Maybe you are right. I just know it doesn't take beauty or money to get a date. It all depends on what you want though.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Move to England.
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@Thevy29 I doubt it's much different.
DestroyerOfIdeologies · 22-25, M
@Thevy29 I thought the English tended to be less obese/fat than Americans?
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@DestroyerOfIdeologies that's what I thought too
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
I'm thin and extremely unlikable.
summersong · F
If only it was that easy…

 
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