Has the universe ever threw a warning right in your face the minute you start something?

The first response to my first post on here is by someone who is obviously a huge Coheed and Cambria fan as am I. I came here for some social interaction and then red flags start flying immediately. I have a very emotionally painful relationship with Coheed and their fans. This settles it, I'm staying away from people. I'm not really someone others should be involved with and I'm not changing. Lonely is better than perpetual disappointment.