what is time?? how does it work?? maybe more to it than we experience??

DEFINITELY!! Time is WAY above man's comprehension lever.
God created time simply as a reference point for us.

Time is a measurement indicating the rate of change. And literally everything changes, most often at different rates change.

I have an enormous beef with her in saying change doesn't change.

Change can change, by its own rate of change. This is a proven fact, mathematically, physically, even in some philosophies.

What I find ironic is that even deities change. 🤣

Why is there a need for a old testament and a new testament, if god himself didn't change! 🤣

It wouldn't be that man himself changed God, after observing that the old ways needed changing? 😈

Like less wars?

There is no past and no future. Only the present. The present doesn't exist in time. If you ask how long does now last the answer can only be that it doesn't last any length of time. Sorry, I just don't have time to explain right now.