So according to my own mother I am nothing like her

I know she implies I am like father when she says that, or she is pointing out at the fact that I am not really religious, but I no longer care to argue with her and remind her of her forgotten "sins". I pretend to not hear it.

She says I am nothing like her, yet when she sees me engaging certain hobbies traditionally associated with women, she also tells me I have her drive.

And also, often, pressures me to get married and have biological children because according to her among my family generation I am the smartest one.

Will she ever make up her mind? Am I a disappointment or not?

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BlueVeins · 22-25

We could use a master race of Miram babies. On that one point, I have to agree.

I'm glad for the ways you're different from her.

Miram · 31-35, F

@BlueVeins No babies will be coming out of my vajayjay. My vajayjay is too precious and I am too selfish. It took forever to tell my partner that vajayjay stuff are okay.

Miram · 31-35, F

@BlueVeins If you want to be a surrogate, I will give you some of my eggs.

sstronaut

Well I don't think anyone could deny that you have drive!

But maybe you should become more religious and worship our one true God. #Pastafarian

Miram · 31-35, F

@sstronaut worshiping is pretty sexual act.

sstronaut

@Miram well I'm sure you wouldn't be the first to get sexual with spaghetti

AnnabelleLeigh · F

My mom was the same. She told me I couldn't sing at home. Then would brag to her friends how well I sang ( if I could get attention for her) She would tell people how smart I was in school but ignored me if I were bleeding in a corner in her sight.
You are not a disappointment. You are lovely and brilliant and talented.

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