URGENT: My ex best friends wants to meet with me tomorrow……..and confront me for my behavior. Should I go?
Look I know what I did wrong but they have to understand that shouldn’t have dumped me like that because I mince my words.
I’ll explain what happened long story short:
“My now ex best friends broke up the friends earlier this past May because they said they are tired of fighting with me, me not being straightforward and sharing my opinion at times and I don’t always listen to what they have to say. My best friends told me, ‘Why bother having a best friend that won’t give a straightforward answer or blunt advice when they screwed up? They said “People that are blunt and straight up with you are the people that care about you the most and you haven’t been showing that and all you have been doing lately is sugarcoat it and nobody wants to be around someone like that. Also you let us do all the work when we were planning outings and our friend was right to point out that you’re making worse because you don’t care enough to help chose and plan the outing. Until you decide to be honest, straightforward and NOT being it around the bush, we don’t wanna be around you.” My guy best friend bluntly said I scream and bitch when they give me constructive criticism take it so personally. That’s why they haven’t been asking me for an opinion anymore because I’ll just butter up shit. They said they don’t enjoy being around me and the friendship don’t mean anything to them anymore. That shocked me. 😳😳🤯🤯“
My girl best friend texted me a half hour ago saying that she wants me to meet them somewhere and they want to confront me about all the horrible things I’ve done to them. What?? I’m not going! I know they’re gonna yell at me.
I’ll explain what happened long story short:
“My now ex best friends broke up the friends earlier this past May because they said they are tired of fighting with me, me not being straightforward and sharing my opinion at times and I don’t always listen to what they have to say. My best friends told me, ‘Why bother having a best friend that won’t give a straightforward answer or blunt advice when they screwed up? They said “People that are blunt and straight up with you are the people that care about you the most and you haven’t been showing that and all you have been doing lately is sugarcoat it and nobody wants to be around someone like that. Also you let us do all the work when we were planning outings and our friend was right to point out that you’re making worse because you don’t care enough to help chose and plan the outing. Until you decide to be honest, straightforward and NOT being it around the bush, we don’t wanna be around you.” My guy best friend bluntly said I scream and bitch when they give me constructive criticism take it so personally. That’s why they haven’t been asking me for an opinion anymore because I’ll just butter up shit. They said they don’t enjoy being around me and the friendship don’t mean anything to them anymore. That shocked me. 😳😳🤯🤯“
My girl best friend texted me a half hour ago saying that she wants me to meet them somewhere and they want to confront me about all the horrible things I’ve done to them. What?? I’m not going! I know they’re gonna yell at me.
22-25, F
