Are there really women out there who tell them to "Hurry up and cum", though??? 🤔

You can teach an old dog new tricks.....(or not).

Having said that.....

IRL...some people are just not sexually compatible, and trust me.... it doesn't (naturally) get better with time. So don't be afraid to bring up what will undoubtedly be one of the most difficult conversations of your life (so far....LOL). In the end, people only change if they want to....and education is the key (there has been a plethora of information about sex and sexual pleasure, and sexual dysfunction published).

Find some one else

I would cum and then leave never call her again nothing

I think the first thing to do is test each other's communication skills. If you're serious about one another that's going to have to be more important.

First try to improve things... if you can't improve things and you're unhappy, then got to make changes.

Sometimes marriages are just not about sex.. People have evolved to be liberal these days. Wise people save marriages and be open about things and help each other whenever/however required

I could handle boring if she was a good cook... XD

....but if she gets cranky and tells me to hurry up, I'm outa there!