How do you feel indifferent about someone?
How do you let go of the anger you feel and let go of that person and move on with your life? I don’t want to feel angry or hurt anymore. I just want to feel indifferent.
31-35, F
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JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
Think about the possibility that the other person has already let go and moved on. I let my anger simmer for far too long after my divorce. You can’t let it continue to eat at you. At some point you have to ask yourself if carrying that emotional baggage is worth it. It isn’t.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@JohnnyNoir I agree you just have to let it go. I’m done being angry and feeling hurt. I really want to just let everything go so I guess it just starts with that way of thinking and with time you will feel indifferent.
HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F
It’s all a process.
Some people can flip a switch and be done and for others it takes a very long time.
Let’s say you were with someone for a year... that’s 365 days of that someone whispering in your ear or you hearing their voice on your own. One can’t expect to become indifferent with 365 days of their life in 1 day.
It takes time to process and move forward.
Some people can flip a switch and be done and for others it takes a very long time.
Let’s say you were with someone for a year... that’s 365 days of that someone whispering in your ear or you hearing their voice on your own. One can’t expect to become indifferent with 365 days of their life in 1 day.
It takes time to process and move forward.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@HotMessExpress102 That is true. In less than 3 months we seriously spent like 100 hours talking on the phone. We talked so much and it really hurt me when he said I’m moving on now goodbye like I meant nothing to him, I just don’t understand how some people can be so heartless to you when you were so kind to them.
summerlove · 31-35, F
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@summerlove Np. That's why we're here, to help & support others, right?
summerlove · 31-35, F
@Thebitterone Yes I definitely agree with that.
@summerlove Cool, as long as I'm not working I'll talk to you.