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SW-User
What can be done so he doesn't come visit?
I wouldn't call or text him right now
He needs to cool down big time
MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
@SW-User I hope so too. Like I said, if he says he isn't coming, I won't care if I lose the money. I rather lose the money than have him come here and make us live in fear
SW-User
@MovieMusicGal I agree..... be strong though.... I know you're stronger than you realize
MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
I appreciate it and thank u for helping me feel a bit calmer. I really needed it.
Serenitree · F
Rent him a room at a motel. Tell him he scares you and you don't want him around you.
MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
@Serenitree even if we did, he still would be coming over and spending the day in the house w us. I don't want him to come, period. Let him stay there.
Serenitree · F
@MovieMusicGal I hope he will.
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MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
@seeandhear thank u. Ur right, there's only so much I can do but I'm hoping he cools down and realizes that this girl he was seeing was trouble (not that she was bad, but her situation) due to all her baggage that she came with.
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SoFine · 46-50, F
Dysfunction is very common.
When rage is present, DON'T TALK. ....you will make it worse.

Write him a letter from the heart, tell him you love him, when he is with rage, you will keep your distance.

His coping skills are lacking, till he can cope, stay away. Try not to buy into the drama, drama is a Rabit Hole, draws one in.

We can't tell you that it will be Ok. We don't know.
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MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
No i wish he did. He has this idea that he's God's greatest gift and that no rules apply to him. He thinks he can do whatever he wants.
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MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
I'm gonna need a prescription for that. Or even a high dose of Xanax. Just so he can say nothing all 3 days.
Intissima · F
Sending you hugs.
You can only do so much for someone. After that they have to want to help themselves.
But don’t neglect when taking care of others. Prioritise yourself.
And please eat 🥪

 
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