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Lynda70 · F Best Comment
Most of those of my generation in the UK did.
huggy001 · 56-60, M
@Lynda70 good, but these days people do not believe bare bottom punishments happened,I would still prefer a bare bottom smacking etc even as an adult
@Lynda70 good reason for us to just give up. Americans aren't in the UK
Good excuse?
huggy001 · 56-60, M
@huggy001 same here ,a good bare bottom works on any bottom any age regardless, but would you give a bare bottom smacking

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Caned4doz · 61-69, M
@Roundandroundwego I of course accept what you have described as the reality of your experience and you wouldn’t be the only one to have endured such treatment. What you have described is when the line between fair and reasonable discipline/punishment and abuse is well and truly crossed. You can spend a lifetime trying to understand why your father acted as he did. I’m sorry you and your brother had to endure that and hope you have both gone on to have a fulfilling life.
TheDisciplinarian · 61-69, M
@Roundandroundwego Well
I Got Shaken Really Bad once
To where i Passed Out
Until..he Shoke me Again Badly..and i Came Too Again
That though..was a Bit Nuts and in the early 70's
Caned4doz · 61-69, M
Yep, got it at home and got it at school. I went to six schools and got everything from Nuns smacking the backs of legs through to hard canings. In my era, cp was normal, expected and accepted. I've never held resentment or animosity about it, after all, I did what I knew I shouldn't, so I could hardly complain when I was punished.
jackcros · 70-79, M
@Caned4doz I think they were more optimistic about the chances of getting caught “it won’t happen to me.”
Sharon · F
@jackcros [quote] I wasn’t aware that this also applied to girls 😊[/quote]
Matybe not every girl but not every boy either. I think it all depends on what they've been brought up to expect.
Sharon · F
@Caned4doz All the girls in my cricle of friends were the same in that respect. We all thought we wouldn't get caught, no matter how many times we were proven wrong.
Emmanuelle · 46-50, F
OUI J'ai reçu des fessées et j'en donne à nos enfants aussi quand c'est mérité
Emmanuelle · 46-50, F
@1olderguy20 par mes parents de 4 ans à 21 ans et vous ?
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1olderguy20 · 61-69, M
@Emmanuelle so you got the marinet
ashleygurlyor · 18-21, F
Definitely!!
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Strict4u · 56-60, M
@Birgit12 good girl I bet you hated getting them at that age
Birgit12 · 56-60, F
@Strict4u it es embarrassing but deserved clearly
Strict4u · 56-60, M
@Birgit12 good girl glad you see that you needed them
ArtieKat · M
When I was at school, the ultimate sanction for serious offences was the cane.
Colin713 · 61-69, M
Women teachers were generally thought to be milder than the men. Once a weak teacher who never used the strap was goaded to lose her temper and went storming off to the staff room we thought to borrow a strap. But she returned with the sports master who did the job on her behalf. Not fun!
@Lynda70
Lynda70 · F
@Colin713 [quote]Women teachers were generally thought to be milder than the men.[/quote]
IME it was the other way around. Female teachers really gave it their all, possibly so as not to be thought of as weak.
Colin713 · 61-69, M
In junior school they were not very frequent users of the tawse. It became very frequent in senior school especially from eleven to fourteen and nearly all the teachers were men. They carried their bit of leather either in the sleeve of the gown or over the shoulder. Ladies used their handbag but there were not many female teachers in senior school@Lynda70
taneegoan · 31-35, F
nope but in my teen i got a lot from them
ArtieKat · M
@taneegoan I'm confused: are you saying you didn't grow up in a world of corporal punishment, but you nevertheless got a lot of punishments during your teens?
taneegoan · 31-35, F
@ArtieKat exactly
Madgirl · 26-30, F
world of corporal punishment... that makes it sound like a theme park....
chrisCA · M
@Madgirl Imagine some of the park characters? 😅
Madgirl · 26-30, F
@chrisCA here we have belty the happy slapper and thats the red sore
SarahB06 · 18-21, F
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ReneeT · 61-69, M
Definitely at grade school. Three years of Catholic school and three years at public. Paddles and yardsticks and pointers.
canadarm · M
Yes, we did. Grade School: a rather nasty rubberized canvas strap; in High School the plain old yardstick.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
Yes my parents beat me in hopes of stopping my tourettes outbursts and tics.
One of the reasons i don't hit my children
CommandLine · 56-60, M
Yes, in school the was the cane and many teachers would throw things at you or use a ruler on your knuckles.
At home we might get a flatly stick (flatly was an old clothes airer/drier.)
That was mother's choice dad just had to look at us lol
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DD parents and i continued when i left home.
Lisamumof1 · 46-50, F
No, but my daughter does
huggy001 · 56-60, M
@Lisamumof1 your daughter does what?
amy02 · 22-25, F
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Strict4u · 56-60, M
@amy02 have you been a good girl staying out of trouble?
hfan17 · 18-21, M
@amy02 same
Docdon23 · M
Yes--beaten often by abusive alcoholic father
tindrummer · M
Texas in the 60s? - you bet 😢
At home it was rare. At school I saw it happen often. I got my hands rulered [b]once[/b] and my mother went down and told them that if I were ever a discipline problem they were to call her, but they were not to touch me.

They called my home once, my offense ? I had asked who Adam and Eve’s children had married ? I really didn’t know.
Pop answered the phone. I heard him say,
"I see. Is she in trouble for asking, or because you had no answer ?"

They hung up on him.
TheDisciplinarian · 61-69, M
kentex35 · 100+, M
@bijouxbroussard in 7th grade a Sister Juliet open hand soap me in the face. Hard too.. you know 7th and 8th grade those hormones get to hopping and you Google it bust out passing when you are in deep shit uncontrollably. My old man went to the next PTA. Only time he ever went, but went straight up to her and asked if she wanted to try that shit with him?!! Never touched me again but still made it hard. The were a lot that really played favorites and lived their little toadies, apple polishers, etc
@kentex35 Yes, that was what I witnessed, too.
DDonde · 31-35, M
ArtieKat · M
Yes - back in the 1950s and '60s CP was everywhere.
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Sophiiee · 18-21, F
texasborn89 · 31-35, M
@Sophiiee me too
Strict4u · 56-60, M
@Sophiiee I hope you are being a good girl and staying out of trouble
Claudia98 · 22-25, F
@Sophiiee Is cp very common in Texas?
Lynda70 · F
Yes, it was very common, a daily occurrance for some.
huggy001 · 56-60, M
yes i did as well has hand smacking
jackcros · 70-79, M
In England in the 50s and 60s I had it at home and school, so did the other kids I knew
davidlewis · M
Yes 60s and 70s belt at school - in Scotland that was common. other at home.
oneofnine · 70-79, M
kentex35 · 100+, M
@Ingwe and most anybody's mom could give you what for and your parent would too.

They hit you at home and they hurt you at school,
They hate you if you're clever and the dispise a fool,
'til you're so fucking crazy you can't follow their rules..
John Lennon
Ingwe · F
yes

back then most people didn't get excited by it
kentex35 · 100+, M
@Ingwe yeah my youngest the heathen his say control center taught the alphabet in some crazy order. Today they are studying the letter P. Like in pneumonia I would say k like in knife. You're not helping mister father. Get it before we call security. I say you better be nice or I won't come by tonight to get him. They tried to buy out by contact.
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NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@Ingwe [i]"back then most people didn't get excited by it"[/i]

You'd be surprised how many did.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
Yes, I did.
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
Yes I did, the paddle at school, the belt at home often in that order.
kentex35 · 100+, M
@BackyardShaman my mother has some kind of ass fixation. If we played in a sand box that day and she knew it around midnight she's be in there with a damn flashlight to check you for worms. And we got enema until we got big enough to fight back about six. Shit she would get the tub ready, bad and ok let's go. Nah! No more. then she say get in here in here aggravating little bastard. Hell no you're dragging me off if I can't get the front door open fast enough. Other wise I'm running away. Like pink Floyd how can you have a good condition if you don't get your colon filled till it hurts. Never again. Same thing with canned broccoli. Ewwi look her in the eye she look at me back she knew. She's say don't look at me in the tone of voice. If say I'm going to get bigger than you. Then I'd get jap slapped. Gag.
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
@kentex35 growing up in the 60s yes, enemas several times a week. And I experienced it too, not fun at all. I agree the adults then had A young tight butt fetish I’m sure my mother enjoyed putting the nozzle up my ass. Likewise, school principals with that paddle, dominating tight young butt, and coaches were generally gay or at least very bisexual.
kentex35 · 100+, M
@BackyardShaman really. The 6th grade coach. Had a wife and kids but like his football team. He was a mailman. We had games on Saturday and Sunday he'd still have his key and finish mail after.
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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
No but that doesn't mean my mother's hand didn't blast off and slap me across face sometimes. She gave up on a wooden spoon too soon for me to remember.
kentex35 · 100+, M
@CrazyMusicLover my mother has broken blood vessels in her hand whacking me. If a nun had to jap slap me then she had to do it again for making a nun have to. Frustrated old bats. We had a retired from teaching nun that was the cafeteria nazi. Sister Valeria. We called her malaria sister Malaria. About 4'7 I said no talking. Who was talking!!? Someone would say he was out for was get her going in circles then came the animal noises. She tried to a home with locks. I hate peas sister Norberta made go back and eat them before I could go out and play. About fifth grade. The janitor pick those up right off I dumped them made some faces and got away. Atlantic cod squares one Friday salmon patties in between. No meat on Friday. But their macaroni was good. Good to a Catholic fish fry done Friday. Cheap and full of memories like roaches lol
chrisCA · M
Not so much as others of my generation.
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@spjennifer Looking back, I don’t think many of the nuns in my school "liked" men in that way.
kentex35 · 100+, M
@bijouxbroussard there were rumors at Simon and Jude about Father Security his hot rod 63 comet and one of the nuns from the convent. I know it was not Sister Mary Joseph that old snaggletooth bat. We had Dominican order. Probably the easiest one to to get into, I don't know for sure kinda spooky ya know with that huge Rosary they were always counting beads on.. and that damn pointer. Oh well I lived.
GerOttman · 61-69, M
LizOwen · 41-45, F
It was part of our world, but did not dominate
kentex35 · 100+, M
@LizOwen ok well I don't dominate I'm more mutual but I would rather feel good knowing I was of use than self serving.

 
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