Annoying thing that happened. [I Like To Share My Sexual Stories]
So due to Covid, the last time I fucked anyone was around 8 months ago. Recently that led to me using my regular chat platform (this isn't an invitation) to sext with random guys.
I was "hanging out" with this one dude a couple nights ago. He allowed me to type up this whole dialogue about giving him head and before I was able to get anything back, he goes, "If you sent me pics of your pussy right now, I could probably get off." I told him deadass no because that wasn't part of the deal. Then later on after talking somemore, he tells me "I could have gotten off without it, I don't know why I lied to you" lmao. Not only did he not return the favor, but he lied to try to get more from me than I already gave him, and I spent like 30 minutes to an HOUR going into heavy detail about sucking him off.
Obviously I was really angry and I told him he needed to leave (was a private room of course.) This hurt his fragile little ego and I felt compelled to explain to him FIVE TIMES that it wasn't personal, I just don't want anything to do with people who lie to me intentionally or not.
All this is to say:
(1) Don't TAKE things from other people during sex without thinking about how you'd be willing to reciprocate. This goes for women too because so many are fucking pillow princesses. Don't ever go into the shit with a selfish mindset unless the person offers to only take care of you. And
(2) When you fuck up, acknowledge that you fucked up and move on. If you get all hung up on trying to explain yourself and whatever, it's obvious you're just trying to rid yourself of the guilt rather than self-reflect.
I was "hanging out" with this one dude a couple nights ago. He allowed me to type up this whole dialogue about giving him head and before I was able to get anything back, he goes, "If you sent me pics of your pussy right now, I could probably get off." I told him deadass no because that wasn't part of the deal. Then later on after talking somemore, he tells me "I could have gotten off without it, I don't know why I lied to you" lmao. Not only did he not return the favor, but he lied to try to get more from me than I already gave him, and I spent like 30 minutes to an HOUR going into heavy detail about sucking him off.
Obviously I was really angry and I told him he needed to leave (was a private room of course.) This hurt his fragile little ego and I felt compelled to explain to him FIVE TIMES that it wasn't personal, I just don't want anything to do with people who lie to me intentionally or not.
All this is to say:
(1) Don't TAKE things from other people during sex without thinking about how you'd be willing to reciprocate. This goes for women too because so many are fucking pillow princesses. Don't ever go into the shit with a selfish mindset unless the person offers to only take care of you. And
(2) When you fuck up, acknowledge that you fucked up and move on. If you get all hung up on trying to explain yourself and whatever, it's obvious you're just trying to rid yourself of the guilt rather than self-reflect.
