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He shot me down today and I feel so hurt and mad.

We are like acquaintances. For a loooooong time it looked like he liked me and I liked him. He would show me so much attention and be really nice to me, tell me things about himself and look at me like I was the only person he could see. Then he would withdraw from me and avoid me and it would be like he was running from me. He is an older "mature" man and I was giving him the benefit of the doubt that he might not be into flirting or be shy. He's not any of those things. Apparently, he just likes to play when he's feeling good about himself and drop me when he feels like it and I'm so upset. Today I tried to approach him to talk and ask why he doesn't talk to me and he kept shutting me down and was cold to me. When only last week he was different and looking at me like he wanted me. Then and there I finally had my answer that I was wrong about him. He's probably married or something and seeking attention and then running when he gets it and that pisses me off so much! I feel like crying and screaming and I still have to see him every now and then. He hurt me and now I can't even look at him anymore.
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smiler2012 · 56-60
[@sweetfanatasy] sorry to here this he sound a total wanker. as hurt as you are if he blows hot and cold the way he does you should be asking yourself the question is he worth you and your affection
SweetFantasy · 26-30, F
@smiler2012 He clearly doesn't feel the same to be blowing hot and cold. We can know the truth but we don't always want the truth 😩
smiler2012 · 56-60
@SweetFantasy can understand that but why kid yourself and let yourself into more hurt and heartbreak . you need to finish it as i say he really has no loyalty and is not worth it
SweetFantasy · 26-30, F
@smiler2012 Oh it ended, technically it never even started. I was fooling myself and he was more than happy to let me. I'm disappointed in him, I had reserved a special place for him in my mind and now he's with the rest. 😔
smiler2012 · 56-60
@SweetFantasy good to here relisation has kicked in . he was a maggot