Why are (most) men intimidated by attractive women?

Women don't usually get intimidated by an attractive man, they get a crush and it makes them excited no matter their confidence level. For me personally, I'm not overly confident and I've actually be labelled as "shy" my entire life but when I see a hot guy, it makes me smile and I compliment him in my mind lol it kind of makes my day a little nicer. I know that hot guy probably didn't even notice me, he's probably got an equally hot girlfriend and he's out of my league anyway and knowing that, I wouldn't feel intimidated. So saying men are intimidated because she's out of their league or fearing rejection doesn't seem to be all there is to it because it doesn't seem to apply when the roles are reversed in my opinion.

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Jdanielb

It's because things are inside out in this upside down world.. men are raised to be subjected to things by govt, most men have a slave mentality rather than a king mentality.. also, they cant understand women and that makes their own life non understandable. It's hard to operate even technology with confidence if you dont understand it, how much more your own life... understand hindsight is 20/20 or I couldn't tell you this..

Hot girls tend to walk away from me if they aren't hopping in my bed, cuz I'll make them cheeks flush like a cluster of ripe cherries..

SweetFantasy · 26-30, F

@Jdanielb The slave mentality vs king mentality thing is an eye opener.

Jdanielb

@SweetFantasy truth is my only purpose, I live in america but I pay no tax except on the dollar I spend, I spend no dollar except what I receive for free doing thing I enjoy, I dont submit to govt or laws but love is my moral compass so I rarely break any laws or make a nuisance of myself..

It has to do with actual laws of creations design and not fictitious laws of man's design..

I despise religion and its legalistic teachers who are confused, however I have read all sacred texts I could find from every culture; my conclusion is women thrive better than men in a world with fictitious designs and laws, (please dont take offense to this truth), for the woman is as creation herself and designed to nurture life and be subjected, men were designed contrary to nature, and born to subject her to their will. It is only a shame that men have become evil by allowing their own subjection, rather than being the subjector.. that may have a slightly crazy sound to it, but to help straighten out the view on where I am coming from , I say this, I think women are beautiful creatures and precious treasures, I can get a lot from them by just holding them in my lap and loving them, but I also am a just a male beast, born to reproduce, so the blood hound gang was not wrong.. "you and me baby , we ain't nothing but mammals, let's do it like they do on the discovery channel"

So then the synapsis is, dear sister, unless you desire to break the chains of govt, you will not find many real men, who dont cower at the site of a pretty girl.