Why do most men just look at women but never say anything?

@SweetFantasy ...I’m pretty sure the theme song from Law and Order: SVU starts playing in those instances. That probably happens often for both sexes without us being aware of it. People of Walmart makes a killing off of such a thing.

@BlueMetalChick 😂. That’s awesome

@questionWeaver Haha nah, just makes it harder for that dude to do it again. Y’all will keep a comin’ and lawd love ya for it 😄

@SweetFantasy really i would even buy u and 80's olds to revv as well

@SweetFantasy Oooh! Just [i]how[/i] would you “make it up to him later”?

@JP1119 hahahaha please

@Nayla everybody is a stranger before you get to know them. If an attractive person saw you and you noticed them, you wouldn't want them to say anything to you? Even some random small talk that could brighten your day a little?

@SweetFantasy no, I wouldn't want them to say anything to me. I've had my own experiences where men have tried to talk to me and not once did it turn into a positive situation.

@Nayla that's usually the case when a man walks by and compliments me but when it's someone I see regularly and it's the same looking but not talking, I'm curious.

@PrivateHell I don't think that can happen by talking only if they try to touch you

@PrivateHell correct

@BlueVeins very true

@DCarey Rejection, humiliation, prosecution

@Adstar And we're back to the problems with your approach. Is there something in between "rape women on sight" and "don't go anywhere near women?" How about paying attention to social cues, and only making an advance when you're fairly certain it will be welcomed, while being prepared to back off if asked? Of course, if you aren't able to sense those social cues, that could be a problem, and the most prudent thing in that case would be to either not approach anyone, or have a more astute person arrange your relationships for you. Like Myles Standish asking John Alden to approach Priscilla Mullins on his behalf (although that didn't turn out the way Standish wanted).

The idea that the law you have will prevent the next generation from being born is ludicrous. There are plenty of people; humanity is in no danger of going extinct because of "feminism."

If you want the freedom to approach women with no restrictions, what's your view on gay men propositioning you? Imagine some big, burly "bear" walking up to you while you're in the supermarket and telling you that you have a nice ass and asking if you'd be OK if he buttfucked you. Or, imagine that this is at night in a deserted alley.

@LeopoldBloom
You just don't get it leopoldBloom..

Or more likely you do gt it but you just refuse to acknowledge the situation..

Your example of a homosexual making an advance just shows me you are not paying attention to what i have said.. You really are dodging.. So no point in continuing the conversation..

@Adstar A gay man approaching you for sex, and you approaching a woman for sex, are [b]exactly[/b] the same thing. The only reason you see a difference is because of your religious indoctrination, that tells you your interest in women is "normal" while a gay man's interest in you is "sinful."

So should I assume that if a large, threatening gay man propositioned you, you'd just tell him "no" with no concern for your safety?

@Justenjoyit best answer

@SweetFantasy [youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PxuUkYiaUc8&t=84s]

@graphite i appreciate this

@sunrisehawk that is truly poetic

@SledgeHammer how? did you fight him?

@SweetFantasy jealous boyfriend comes up behind me and spins me around and gets in my face....
I Kicked his ass!

@iamnikki totally agree

@SweetFantasy Staring is never appropriate.

@SweetFantasy I know right. Glad someone agrees lol

@SW-User yes! That's what I mean surely staring silently is worse than looking and saying something nice

@LeopoldBloom girls usually don't like it when a strangers first words to them is "you're beautiful or hot" I guarantee 99% wouldn't be impressed. I guess this saying something instead of staring thing only has hope if it's someone you see regularly because then you have a chance to become familiar.

@SweetFantasy Exactly. I would have to know the woman pretty well before I would comment on her appearance.

@SweetFantasy eye contact chills me to the bone.

@Dolimyte I've heard some people have a big issue with eye contact. I don't particular like it but when you're minding your own business and you catch someone staring into your eyes, i dare you to lock eye with them and don't move before they do! They will feel uncomfortable too I promise!

@SweetFantasy I don't stare anymore, that was when I was much younger, but sometimes eye contact happens and it's still one of my biggest anxiety triggers.

@SumKindaMunster wisdom here!

@Nayla yeah I didn't say staring, a look is harmless but looking a lot is like staring. You're not going to wonder why someone isnt talking to you if they look over once, continued glances is when it's annoying.

@SweetFantasy I think when you're young it might be fun but when you're my age, you could care less.

@Nayla when its someone you find intruiging and possibly attractive you would want them to say something.

@SW-User social anxiety

@SweetFantasy you said it.

@theexciting1 good tip it's much more subtle than waving back lol I usually ignore them for awhile just to see if it's really me they're waving to or just look behind you

@JP1119 happened to me today! I was at a traffic light and I looked beside me and a cute man was looking at me and i quickly looked away and didn't look back and as we left he came past me and looked again and 10 minutes later I was like "damn! I shouldnt have looked away!"

@ViciDraco Exactly. Someone recently answered here my post on why should a woman who doesn't offer much due to anxiety, date anyway? They said because the connection with someone is worth more. (Than fear or risk) I liked that.

@Coralmist I definitely believe it is up to the other person to decide what someone offers them. We never have a true way of seeing what we mean to others.

@ViciDraco Thank you 🦋🌹

@JohnOinger your question haha same question different names

@SweetFantasy thanks

@JohnOinger you're nice and fun to talk to

@SweetFantasy Nice

@SweetFantasy So What do you think of The Rock & Would You Do Him

@JohnOinger the rock is cute in a silly charming way and come on both these men wouldnt do me lol

@BeefySenpie men really can't multitask

@ncgremlin Same here.

@Virgo79 you dont have to worry about a woman attacking you. Maybe her man.

@SweetFantasy or both😳

I try to behave,

Most times🤭