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Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Yeah. It's like that.
@V00doo it shouldn't be 🥺
@ChiefWalksWith40oz It isnt with the right person.
I literally just said no to the bf and he continued presenting me with a bunch of other options trying to get me to cave in. I fucking hate that shit. "No" does not mean "maybe if you phrase it differently." 😑
@Nadie yeah that's a little pushy. & I know he's probably a good guy overall.. but I wish dudes knew when to dial it back
LordShadowfire · 46-50
@Nadie My dad does that, in literally every aspect of his life. Whenever I say he can't have a particular food because there's too many carbs and it's almost dinner, he starts in with what I call his "bargaining with God" phase. Fortunately, I have the privilege of not knowing whether that is true of the other aspect of his life, because gross.
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We live in a society where expressions like "sex object" have been normalised, too many men believe that women are just here for their pleasure

She's lucky to have a decent man like you
@SW-User it's sad 😕 I wish that shit was different. I mean I like sex but I couldn't treat someone like an object. It's no fun if only one person is enjoying themselves
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@ChiefWalksWith40oz I agree. Sadly there's a lot of men in particular who see women as just objects and talk about us that way too
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@caccoon aw 🥺 you don't deserve that. Nobody does. This was honestly the first time for me that anybody has cried during sex & it hurt because that's not the reaction I want. Like my dick literally went soft as soon as I heard her cry so I couldn't continue even if I wanted to
caccoon · 36-40
@ChiefWalksWith40oz unfortunately you're a rarity. Keep being you 💙
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
It’s really sad but society normalizes this behaviour.
@iamonfire696 that's so weird 😒 the baby obviously didn't give a damn about how they looked he was just happy to have attention. & Who the hell takes a 1 year old to Hooters for a birthday? That had to be to satisfy the dad himself, he didn't do that for the baby
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz isn’t it weird.

But see how so many people are making sexualized comments and people are laughing like this is normal. It’s stuff like that everyday that we see and hear that makes it easy for everyone to normalize the behaviour that a woman’s place in life is to please a man first.

This is in advertising, it’s everywhere in our lives. We are just so used to it that we don’t even notice anymore.
@iamonfire696 my phone didn't let me open the TikTok but I'll take your word for it. I probably wouldn't wanna read the comments anyway because it would bother me. Weird world we live in for sure
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
You’re a good man
@Cantsayno thanks man. I'm not great but I try
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
@ChiefWalksWith40oz same here, but sometimes it just takes a little
Wow.

Im SOOOOoooo impressed.🤗

THIS ....this is the type of conversations people should be having !
I wish more people made REAL posts about sex and sexuality ....where we could all input REAL experiences and ideas .

Porn....social expectation....and people sacrificing their sexuality to those expectations....are what fuck up obtaining 'great sex'.

I see so many posts that are TOTAL BULLSHIT, with people backing up others bullshit .....all becuase they dont know, never experienced it, and prefer their ideal illusion to reality .


So well said man....so WELL said .

Humanity needs to stop, slow down, put fucked up impossible ideals aside.....and get into the moment and their partner honestly.

I mean, its between you and your partner....no body else .

Sometimes i wonder how many people let this happen. ... go their WHOLE lives never having mind bending sex, all becuase they were too busy pretending .


Awsome post man .
😊👍
@OogieBoogie damn thanks. I honestly thought this post was gonna get some hate at least. But I feel like it was something I wanted to say so I said it 🤷

I mean not everything is perfect, nobody is obligated to pretend anything is.
@ChiefWalksWith40oz yeah, and thats the point too many dont get : feeling [b]any [/b]obligation to pretend is ultimately destructive - it adds nothing except bad feeling from unnecessary sacrafice .

Id post more serious posts about sex, but as a woman i got too many wanna bes thinking its an invitation.

There is too much misinformation out there.

Its was a good post man👍
@OogieBoogie that makes sense that it would be harder for women to post anything about sexual experiences. Of course dudes gotta perv out over it every time 🙄
Talking about sex doesn't have to be all sexy & fun bs, shit can get real too
LordShadowfire · 46-50
That is fucked up. I want to know if I'm doing something she doesn't like, because then I can find something else she does like. That's the whole point of sex, not just to please the man.
@LordShadowfire exactly man 👌 like if it's not working for the other person, how's it gonna work for you? It's crazy to me that so many dudes really dgaf what their partners really want in the moment
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
Totally relatable. And yes, this is why women are fucked up and afraid of men. I’m so used to men treating me like shit in (and out of) bed I don’t even want to have sex until I find respect first. It’s not surprising at all that she was trying to take it. More concerned with your dick inside her, your pleasure, as opposed to her enjoyment or even comfort. Out of the men I’ve slept with, maybe 1 or 2 ever seemed interested in making me feel good.

Thanks for helping her through that. Last guy I told he was hurting me got pissed. A few times after I just let them hurt me. It was something, some touch, some desire, some dick. Ultimately women want pleasure too, but we know how men are and we feel we have to suffer through what he wants to feel anything at all from the encounter.
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AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz that’s just not how it is unfortunately...

If you try to speak up, men know how to cut you down to nothing. Butt ass naked and vulnerable and he’s mad cuz you have feelings. It’s scary. You get used to it because that’s the only option. Even clothed in public situations you get overpowered.

It sucks.

 
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