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What's your reaction to your sexual urges?

How do you cope? What's your plan? What do you do with it ? Asking for a friend buahahah
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
I ignore them or rub a few out.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Jeephikelove i love your masculinity, it's energizing 🤣
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@MartinTheFirst 🤦🏻‍♀️
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@Jeephikelove rub is the proper term!
Lilymoon · F
@SUPERVlXEN I dunno I just get hot 🤭
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Lilymoon · F
@Degbeme Thanks I needed that 😛
ABCDEF7 · M
It has never been easy. When it has already came to the point where you need to react, you will need very decisive mind, strong will power to come out from the scenario, otherwise you will not be able to do much to prevent your urges from overpowering your decision making. Although there are some tips like drinking cold water, talking to some other people, doing few pranayama, etc..

The point is to channel your energies, mind and time to other more productive things, that also can give you satisfaction of accomplishing something, which will be also useful in your life. It's also about maintaining a different life style. It's not about how to stop thinking about that, it's about thinking something creative to you that can occupy your mind so much that you don't get time to think about it. Ans slowly you learn to disassociate yourself with it.
being · 36-40, F
@ABCDEF7 the word "scenario" kind of helps to put things in perspective. So, redirect. For the most part 🤭 okay I guess it's part of being a human. I can always paint around it
ABCDEF7 · M
@being It highly depends on the scenario, some are easy to deal with, some are challenging, few can be next to impossible.

I am sorry if I made it complex. I guess, things are not simpler (to me at least). I would try to elaborate if required.
SW-User
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@SW-User You need to see a doctor! 😨
@SW-User Umm... blue balls certainly became more alarming!!! 😱😱😱
Sexual urges? What are those?
My one remaining dram of testosterone is playing solitaire.
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
My friend says he drives around at 3 AM looking for street walkers.
SUPERVlXEN · F
We need to have a plan? 😱
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@SUPERVlXEN right? I sure as hell don’t.
SUPERVlXEN · F
@Jeephikelove
It's a case by case scenario 😤
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Mostly, my reaction is that I need more perverted women friends, and lacking that, maybe a nice skin lotion.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@being Well, sure. We live in an imperfect universe.

How do you deal with your sexual urges?
being · 36-40, F
@DunningKruger I've tried both edges, to abstain and to totally give in, and the middle way, and nothing seems quite satisfactory.
I'm not particularly enjoying the strong gravitational pull they create that make me act like a fool ..
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@being Yeah, that's never fun.

Fucking is better than not fucking. If you don't have someone to fuck, masturbation works to some degree, if not totally satisfying. Repression — sometimes this works, too.

I think one just has to flow with the moment, and try to avoid the acting like a fool part as much as possible.
Lady Crush takes care of that for me.
Pfuzylogic · M
I was being social before the pandemic.
With diabetes it has become more of a challenge because i am always masked up in common public areas. I am not entertaining the thought of catching long covid.
My hope is to meet someone to help me with them, but I don't really have a plan for that. In the meantime I just joke about my urges and focus on hobbies instead. 🥲
being · 36-40, F
@NerdyPotato growing skillset is most of the times a good idea ..
@being I do that every day in technical and creative skills, but social skills are hard...
SW-User
Dealing with it in private like a decent person and not splatting it all over social media like some desperate creep.
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
Depends what they are. I struggle with some but successfully distract myself from others
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
With my right hand and wild imagination 😂
being · 36-40, F
@CrazyMusicLover okay so you're giving in just you don't complicate stuff with mixing another into it
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@being Exactly, why complicating things when it already works pretty well as it is? 😆
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
I'm just used to them 😅
being · 36-40, F
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@being no idea hahah guess it's like every other thought you can get used to
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
I just kind of shrug them off for the most part at this point. Had too much time to sit around and wrestle with them and now I'm just kind of disenchanted with it all. 🤔
being · 36-40, F
@thepreposterouspanda I'm kind of similar right now in the sense that I took my time wrestling with those thoughts and feelings. But I still find myself trying to hang onto them, and following around people I shouldn't really, just because I find some strong sexual energy around them..
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Yikes. Too complicated for me to be able to explain here.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@being I'll need some time...
being · 36-40, F
@MarkPaul okay then
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@being Well, I won't keep you waiting forever. You'll see.
JesseInTX · 51-55, M
I take matters into my own hands if a partner is not available
I use my vibrator when it becomes strong and that helps me for a while
SW-User
🤔
Walking 🚶‍♂️
Eating 🍽
Sleeping 🛌

😁
being · 36-40, F
@SW-User it works, right?
Saintweezer · 36-40, M
Became a nudist for easy access
Glassysky · 26-30, M
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@iamonfire696 can you describe my Nevin under a thousand? LOL
@iamonfire696 And when it really starts going:

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@NerdyPotato accurate 🤣🤭
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
I try to have them in the cleanest way possible nowadays, sometimes I feel ashamed
being · 36-40, F
@MartinTheFirst how do you mean in the cleanest way ..
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@being Without feeling like I am dirtying my soul or using people
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Just click on to some porn lol

 
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